I think there’s also the part being played in who the man is wearing the lace. St Pius X and Archbishop Lefebvre were men. Urrutigoity and co are floral upside and down in their personalities ... and actions.

Urrutigoity is lucky that he wasn’t a priest when Saint Pius V was reigning.

Who is Urritigoity?

He’s a former SSPX priest.

He’s a former SSPX priest.

... who became implicated in various sins against nature involving young men under his care.  Just do some Googling on "Urrutigoity Society of St. John".

https://www.commonwealmagazine.org/curious-case-carlos-urrutigoity-i-updated

I am most thankful to the Holy Ghost for quickly extracting me from the SSJ cult (cult in the pejorative sense)

Of all the postulants who came that fateful time in Shohola, and I believe there were about eight, all were gone I was later told within about a month. I was gone in 12 hours. One night was enough.

Alas that the whole lot were not strung up and made to sway in the breeze as a reminder to other pervs.

The one that +Lefebvre is wearing is probably not what OP had in mind.  I had a bad experience with excessively lacey surplices at STAS -- it was mostly the future SSJ crowd that was very big into these.  We're talking lacey to the point of looking like women's lingerie, not what +Lefebvre was wearing.

OP here and yes, that's right, the one that Lefebvre is wearing in the first photo actually looks fine.
The one he's wearing in the second photo, and the ones even St. Pius X himself is wearing, I'm sorry, but those look effeminate.
I don't think recognizing this is a sin or "bad." I think it was in the McHugh and Callan moral theology book that I read that one might dislike and object to religious art because not all religious/sacred art is well made or "good" looking, so this may seem to be similar, in my view.
I don't like this sort of brain-washing where men look at flowery lace and say "yeah that looks so manly" simply because a Saint or someone highly regarded would wear it.
A black cassock, on the other hand, looks very good and manly, in my mind. The world seems to think so too, since this is the outfit they gave Neo in the Matrix movies (not endorsing or approving of them in any way).

Would a man make this post in the anonymous section? To post this in the anonymous section seems effeminate to me.

Anonymity eliminates biased answers and ad hominems, among other things. 

I was on a trip that took me through PA and attended a Sunday Mass at the place they basically stole funds for. Could not get away fast enough. I remember their ordinations and wondered what the faggy dress was all  about. Midevel they claimed, I thought not any I've ever seen

Anonymity eliminates biased answers and ad hominems, among other things.

Or, rather, no it doesn't, you idiot.