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Änσnymσus

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Re: Effects of divorce on courtships and future marriages
« Reply #30 on: Yesterday at 08:44:29 AM »
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    • If you truly thought she would divorce you, then i'd play the long-game and start planning.  Give in a little and then just wait for the next demand.  Record everything.  Try to have arguments over text, so you have a record.  Then you can use this in divorce proceedings as leverage.  The point is not to encourage the divorce, but if she's determined to do so, then you need to protect your house/assets-- not selfishly, but for your children.  Contact a lawyer now, and get his advice.  Women today have an incentive to divorce.  If she has already mentioned it, then your marriage is on shaky ground.  And it's her fault.  Pray that it doesn't happen, but plan for the worst.  
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    Re: Effects of divorce on courtships and future marriages
    « Reply #31 on: Yesterday at 08:47:50 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 08:35:05 AM
    Question for men:  if your wife was threatening divorce, would you capitulate to her demands for whatever it is she wants to avoid divorce or would you stand your ground on your principles and let the divorce go through but not cooperate?
    Stand your ground, whatever happens is not your doing. Welcome to evil society where divorce is completely legal. 

    Choose wisely. 

    Some people marry because they take what they can get. I see it allllll the time. 
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    « Reply #32 on: Yesterday at 03:45:54 PM »
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    • Yea, sorry to say it lads, but sad reality is that a woman coming from a divorced family is kind of a red flag that ought to be avoided.

    I know we can say all these flowery, sweet nice things about how people can overcome these things blah blah blah, and there's some truth, I'm not denying it.

    But real life is that most people follow the disruptive habits of their parents, despite the most vigorous protestations they might give.

    As one poster earlier said "Divorce breeds divorce."
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    « Reply #33 on: Yesterday at 03:47:53 PM »
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    • What about a girl who's parents were never married?  At least there was no divorce.
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    « Reply #34 on: Yesterday at 03:55:31 PM »
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    • Thats even worse...
    Bastard children were disinherited in Catholic countries.
    But in terms of damage, they're gonna be seriously messed up. even more. Because at least a divorced parents child will have memories of their parents married to cling onto. When the parents were so sinful to not even try to make a commitment it pretty much dooming the child to be disordered when they grow up.
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    « Reply #35 on: Yesterday at 04:30:55 PM »
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    • Clearly the best solution for men is a monastery.
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    « Reply #36 on: Today at 01:27:39 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:30:55 PM
    Clearly the best solution for men is a monastery.
    Good women will look within and reform themselves.
    Evil women will come on internet forums and make snarky responses diverting attention from the issue.
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    Änσnymσus

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    « Reply #37 on: Today at 03:29:31 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 01:27:39 AM
    Good women will look within and reform themselves.
    Evil women will come on internet forums and make snarky responses diverting attention from the issue.
    Lol. Don't you love it when bad women insert themselves into, and spoil an otherwise wholesome conversation?
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    Re: Effects of divorce on courtships and future marriages
    « Reply #38 on: Today at 07:26:33 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 01:27:39 AM
    Good women will look within and reform themselves.
    Evil women will come on internet forums and make snarky responses diverting attention from the issue.
    How do you know it was a women who said that? There are some men on the forum who have made this suggestion.  Maybe i will try and find an example.
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