You're right. It's counter-intuitive, because superficially, your first thought is, "It takes two to tango". But the male tango partners are the top 5%, whereas many guys are left out altogether. So yes, each "notch on the woman's bed post" represents a male fornication as well -- but it's all the same men!

Also, "averages" are deceptive because Chad skews the numbers.

Something about the term “pair bonding” makes me cringe every time I see it. It just sounds so… scientific? It’s hard to find the right way to describe it. It just seems like it lowers the marital act to something almost animalistic.

>Women know damn well what they got up to all that time. It became a rite of passage for women to squander all their opportunity in life with the assurance that they could support themselves and find a man later anyway

Yeah it's normalized for women to ride the CC until their late 20's/early 30's THEN start looking for a provider.

The internet revealed what a scam that is. Guys who would've been betabux in the past are realizing they're being asked to pay top dollar for what prior men got for free. It's an insult. Any man with dignity and self respect would say "no" to that.

Love requires sacrifice. Men sacrifice a lot when they become the primary breadwinner of a family. They dutifully clock in at a job they may not particularly like and work more hours than they may like to for +30 years because other people are depending on them.

The least women could do is sacrifice their 10 years of Chad chasing and CC riding to show their future husbands some respect, and be able give them something private and exclusive instead of something public and common (i.e. less valuable) that multiple other men already had at a lower price of entry.