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while gravely sinful, sɛҳuąƖ activity does not so corrupt the psychology of men as it does women.
sɛҳuąƖ activity doesn't corrupt human psychology; that makes it sound like coitus, even within the proper context of marriage, is a psychological illness.
Do you mean to say that there is no male equivalent of female intactness?

This is in fact why there is no such thing as male virginity.
Apoc. 14:4:
Quote from: St. John
These are they who were not defiled [coinquinati, masculine plural adjective in St. Jerome's transl.] with women: for they are virgins. These follow the Lamb whithersoever he goeth. These were purchased from among men, the firstfruits to God and to the Lamb.

Male saints are not styled "virgins" in the Church's liturgy, but "confessors."
Sure, but the Martyrology says things like:
Quote from: 05-26
At Rome, holy Philip Neri, founder of the Congregation of the Oratory, famous for his virginity, his gift of prophecy, and his wondrous works.
Quote from: 08-06
he [St. Dominic] preserved without stain his virginity
I count the phrase "his virginity" 15× in the Breviary's biographies.
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sɛҳuąƖ activity doesn't corrupt human psychology; that makes it sound like coitus, even within the proper context of marriage, is a psychological illness.
Do you mean to say that there is no male equivalent of female intactness?
Apoc. 14:4:Sure, but the Martyrology says things like:I count the phrase "his virginity" 15× in the Breviary's biographies.
He means that woman psychology changes by each man they sleep with.


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He means that woman psychology changes by each man they sleep with.
Fornication, yes.
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Most North American, Western European, Australian and Ukrainian women are infected with spiritual H1N1p virus. Best not waste your time with them. Go Russian, Belarussian, Finnish or Sicilian. Go White.

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Both men and women should follow the 10 commandments.  Both should be pure at marriage.  Is there really a difference between a man breaking the 6th and 9th commandment and a woman breaking those commandments?
1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 "4 Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely; is not puffed up; 5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil;"


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Both men and women should follow the 10 commandments.  Both should be pure at marriage.  Is there really a difference between a man breaking the 6th and 9th commandment and a woman breaking those commandments?
Yes this has been posted numerous times. The temporal consequences for sɛҳuąƖ sins is much greater in women than for men. A man is the head of the household, his wife having a previous male his a huge problem for his authority. Also physical, emotional, and psychological damage the woman has taken, not to mention the DNA of other men the children will inherit. And the lack of ability to pair-bond.

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Is grass green? Is water wet? Is Minnesota negroid? :laugh1:

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Yes this has been posted numerous times. The temporal consequences for sɛҳuąƖ sins is much greater in women than for men. A man is the head of the household, his wife having a previous male his a huge problem for his authority. Also physical, emotional, and psychological damage the woman has taken, not to mention the DNA of other men the children will inherit. And the lack of ability to pair-bond.
The consequences might be worse for women, but does that mean the sin is any less?

Should a woman want to marry a man who has sinned with women?  

Is it really true that men don't have physical, emotional ,  or psychological damage when they have multiple partners?  Are we even able to measure this?  Is it more based on certain temperaments?  
1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 "4 Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely; is not puffed up; 5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil;"


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The consequences might be worse for women, but does that mean the sin is any less?

Should a woman want to marry a man who has sinned with women? 

Is it really true that men don't have physical, emotional ,  or psychological damage when they have multiple partners?  Are we even able to measure this?  Is it more based on certain temperaments? 
Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of marriage. 

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Pair bonding is not Catholic.  It's a construct based on evolutional psychology.  Unmarried people can pair bond according to this theory.  

Matrimony is Catholic.  It's the only bond that matters.

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Pair bonding is not Catholic.  It's a construct based on evolutional psychology.  Unmarried people can pair bond according to this theory. 

Matrimony is Catholic.  It's the only bond that matters.
:facepalm:  Pair bonding has to do with hormones, emotions and human psychology.  It's not a construct, but science.  God designed all of this to work inside matrimony.  It can also work outside of matrimony, but this would be sinful.  


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The consequences might be worse for women, but does that mean the sin is any less?

Should a woman want to marry a man who has sinned with women? 

Is it really true that men don't have physical, emotional ,  or psychological damage when they have multiple partners?  Are we even able to measure this?  Is it more based on certain temperaments? 
Ladies men are serial fornicators who constantly seek female-attention due to stunted emotional development. They have negative feminine traits themselves (duplicity - e.g. have affairs) unless they learn to snap  out of it and be a real man. Just like correcting a limp wrist.

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Ladies men are serial fornicators who constantly seek female-attention due to stunted emotional development. They have negative feminine traits themselves (duplicity - e.g. have affairs) unless they learn to snap  out of it and be a real man. Just like correcting a limp wrist.
What a disgusting comment. You know women can cheat as well. These days, it's the girls losing their virginities at an earlier age compared to their peers. Bitter old hag.

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Pair bonding is not Catholic.  It's a construct based on evolutional psychology.  Unmarried people can pair bond according to this theory. 

Matrimony is Catholic.  It's the only bond that matters.
Well fornication is not Catholic yet it still happens. And when someone loses their virginity outside of marriage, that has consequences when they find their spouse. 

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What a disgusting comment. You know women can cheat as well. These days, it's the girls losing their virginities at an earlier age compared to their peers. Bitter old hag.
Marriage honourable in all, and the bed undefiled. For fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4

The immoral are only lucky it doesn't carry the death penalty like it used to. And Jesus Christ said "Go and sin NO MORE" to the woman caught in adultery ( John 8:11).

Jesus Christ was more than familiar with the rope ...

But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone should be hanged about his neck, and that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea. (Matthew 18:6)