Perhaps the time has come for much more parental involvement in the courting and marriage process.
The c-sickness scam has adversely affected the mental and social health of society. Younger Gen Z’s are suffering not from serial concubinage and too much sex on the brain, but the opposite. Years of lockdowns have left older teens and young adults with “failure to launch” syndrome.  They don’t know how to socialize without phones. They aren’t leaving the nest, convinced they cannot ever find remunerative work, establish their own home much less own one, they cannot afford to marry, or to support a spouse and raise children.
Catholic parents and priests should step in and assist the young in becoming adults.
I’m not suggesting arranged marriages as in, “You WILL marry this person or you’re out of the will,” type of arrangements, rather, parents and priests should play a more significant role in facilitating choosing career paths and healthy relationships leading to good marriages and Godly offspring, not just focusing on religious vocations alone. A healthy society needs both.

You think sins of the flesh (private) is going to cancel out a virgin man? Well you didn’t mention the same thing for a woman because everyone assumes mostly men do them.

And a virgin man is still a virgin even if he has done sins of the flesh 

I’m sure more men are virgins than woman. It shouldn’t be that hard to find a virgin man.

The priest may have been trying to soften his blows to you when he said that.

There are some women who should not marry it is true. And because men have more options and can wait longer, its better sometimes for them to wait. Find someone more stable.

The problem with this is most modern people are not ok with age gaps. So the man waiting makes it harder to get a younger girl due to feminist brainwashing.

No it's because woman develop earlier and faster then men. It's because men need to be mature, lead and provide. It's takes much longer for a man to be ready to get married than a woman. The woman should ideally get married at around ~18. But at 18 most males are nowhere near ready to marry and become fathers and husbands.

So yes men do deserve a younger woman, not because they got rejected (women usually prefer older men) but because after building themselves up from nothing why would they pick a woman their age who was unwilling to support the and be around when they needed it most. Ladies you do not get to wait around at the finish line for a prince. The prince will pick a cute young virgin. Not an old lady.

I am starting to think that the ladies will reject a prince if he isn't a virgin, or is not tall enough etc... You would think that Catholic girls are less picky than secular girls, seems that they are more picky.