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Perhaps the time has come for much more parental involvement in the courting and marriage process.
The c-sickness scam has adversely affected the mental and social health of society. Younger Gen Z’s are suffering not from serial concubinage and too much sex on the brain, but the opposite. Years of lockdowns have left older teens and young adults with “failure to launch” syndrome.  They don’t know how to socialize without phones. They aren’t leaving the nest, convinced they cannot ever find remunerative work, establish their own home much less own one, they cannot afford to marry, or to support a spouse and raise children.
Catholic parents and priests should step in and assist the young in becoming adults.
I’m not suggesting arranged marriages as in, “You WILL marry this person or you’re out of the will,” type of arrangements, rather, parents and priests should play a more significant role in facilitating choosing career paths and healthy relationships leading to good marriages and Godly offspring, not just focusing on religious vocations alone. A healthy society needs both.

You think sins of the flesh (private) is going to cancel out a virgin man? Well you didn’t mention the same thing for a woman because everyone assumes mostly men do them.

And a virgin man is still a virgin even if he has done sins of the flesh 

I’m sure more men are virgins than woman. It shouldn’t be that hard to find a virgin man.