If I was tricked into marrying a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ man, meaning, if he had acted upon it and not told me, or had the desire and not told me, I would separate from him even if I couldn’t get an annulment. To me, that is a non-negotiable. I would never marry a man who had ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ attraction or had been an active ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ.
I know someone to whom this happened. They already had two daughters and he’d been with the man both before and throughout their marriage. When he was caught, he wanted to have his “lover” move in with them! They weren’t Catholic, some kind of Protestant. She took the girls and moved back in with her parents. It was a long, drawn out, nasty divorce in which she was forced to grant him the girls every other weekend and he got the house as it was paid for and in his and his mother’s name on the deed. She got the older car and the camper van. He kept the new car, the outboard boat, and the two dogs.
I’ve no idea what happened to him, but she did remarry when the girls were mostly grown. He was a widower with several adult children. So far as I know, they are still together, living in the Boston, MA area.
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