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Author Topic: Does a potential spouse have a right to know sɛҳuąƖ history before marriage?  (Read 108350 times)

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It's definitely something they need to know before committing to you for the rest of their lives. Omitting the truth can often be just as bad as lying.
People have cited two priests that have said otherwise. That's much more compelling than your opinion.

People have cited two priests that have said otherwise. That's much more compelling than your opinion.
Well, that may be true, but we are all our own free agents, we all have lives to live and try to make sure they turn out halfway right, and just for my part, I'd want to know, at least in broad brushstrokes, and I would both be willing to, and be willing to be expected to, paint my own broad brushstrokes.  If I were single in the Eyes of God, and contemplating marriage, my intended and I would, at some point, be having the "now, there aren't going to be any 'Easter eggs' come up one of these days than neither of us expect, something or someone that could pop out of the woodwork, are there? --- anything that I'd want to know about now, instead of finding out later, right?". 

Again, if in doubt --- or maybe even if there is no doubt --- just do yourself a favor, and hire that PI.  If you don't, and it blows up in your face later, at least some stranger on the Internet will have warned you.  If you do, and nothing ever comes of it, no harm, no foul, the $450 you'll spend is about the price of a halfway-good-quality suit of clothes.


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People have cited two priests that have said otherwise. That's much more compelling than your opinion.
Priests don't get married. Cheers!

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"Virginity tests" are impossible to do on a man.  The conventional wisdom nowadays, is that demanding physical evidence of a woman's non-virginity (i.e., intact hymen) is an injustice, because any number of things can happen --- she might be born without one, it might be defective in some way, it may have been torn open through some physical injury, or what have you.  

And what's the problem? If the man is demanding what the woman judges as not just, the woman will reject him. You're talking about a non-issue. 

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Priests don't get married. Cheers!
That's a Prot argument. Might as well ignore all moral theology about sex, since priests don't have sex, right? Hell, why listen to them on marriage at all? I want to divorce my haggard old wife and marry my hot young secretary.