Also if someone has viewed pornography intentionally even ONE time it should be disclosed. Why? Because pornography use by men has the similar effect against pair-bonding that pre-marital sex has on women. We have been told by our priests that one use of porn can destroy a man's natural attraction for real women for life. Every woman has a right to know if her potential spouse is a habitual self-abuser. That will ruin a marriage.
If every trad followed your advice, then no trad marriage would ever happen again or... porn usage will be increasingly publicly normalized in trad circles because of the commonplace admission of committing the sin. I do not calumny trads when I say that 95% of trad men have viewed pornography "even one time" in their life. Multiple trad priests said that the #1 and #2 confessed sins from men in the twin sins of viewing pornography and self-abuse. Put yourself in their shoes: they have strong desires as young adults but moral qualms against fornication and adultery.
Also, where do you draw the line at pornography? MTV music video? A PG-13 movie? Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition? Sears catalog?
Why not demand that if someone has self-abused even one time it should be disclosed?
Why not demand that if someone has entertained impure thoughts even one time it should be disclosed?
Maybe you should have been a priest if you want people to confess everything to you.