For example virginity, how many partners, whether one was abused or not, etc?
Pamphleteer Fr. Daniel Lord, SJ said that the answer is NO, assuming that the sin had been confessed and it was not being committed anymore.
I myself have a sinful past and I wouldn't want a potential spouse to know about it.
I agree with Fr. Lord. When we confess our sins to the priest we are forgiven and those sins are buried and we rise to a new life in Christ.
Presumably, you do not, at the moment, have a specific person in mind for your spouse.
I too had a sinful past; once I repented of those sɛҳuąƖ sins and made the resolution to sin no more I, providentially, met my spouse, who was deeply committed to a sincere life in Christ and my spouse’s stipulation when we talked of possible marriage was that our marriage would be founded firmly on Jesus Christ. My spouse also had a past and had repented. When you repent you leave your sins behind and there is no reason dredge them up.
Of course, much will depend on both of you and how forgiving and understanding each of you is. Also, there could be repercussions from past sins or past abuse, but as spouses we are there to support and pray for each and to grow in love.
Do not be anxious about this. Trust God and pray for a good spouse to come your way soon. Give Archangel Raphael a call. He is the one for finding a good spouse and sorting out early marriage problems. Read The Book of Tobit.
Prayer to St. Raphael for the Wise Choice of a Marriage Partner
O Glorious St. Raphael, Patron and Lover of the Young, I call upon thee and plead with thee for thy help. In all confidence I open my heart to thee, to beg thy guidance and assistance in the important task of planning my future. Obtain for me through thy intercession the light of God’s grace, so that I may decide wisely concerning the person who is to be my partner through life. O Angel of Happy Meetings, lead us by the hand to find each other. May all our movements be guided by thy light and transfigured by thy joy. As thou didst lead the young Tobias to Sara and opened up for him a new life of happiness with her in holy marriage, lead me to such a one whom in thine angelic wisdom thou dost judge best suited to be united with me in marriage.