I think people are being overly critical. The poster wanted to be anonymous, for her own reason. The anonymity could mean anything ranging from not wanting to jeopardize her current employment to trying to get away from an abusive situation. This person seems to be attempting to find a traditional Catholic family to live with, which mean she is trying to find people who will share her values rather than lead her astray. Real life is expensive and it seems like she is trying to remain in the Society. I am no where near the area so I can be of no help. I really feel that we need to build, nourish an support our community. Since joining the SSPX, I have always been shocked to see how many people are ready to point fingers and try to be holier than thou. A little kindness, especially online, can go a long ways.