Maybe you should have a good look at yourself as to why some of you have so few friends. It could be that you’re not very nice people. Maybe if you were more saintly, more people would be attracted to you. You don’t have to only be friends with people you deem ‘worthy’. That might be the answer you’re looking for.
Uh, nice of you to think the worst of me, but no.
Let's review my original post.
I have been friendly to so many people in my adult life, yet I currently have no friends IRL. All I have are some acquaintances, most of whom are a generation older than me. Some have moved away, others left my chapel or group and cut off from me, and others actually turned on me, betrayed me, or became my actual enemy. People say you have to be a friend to make a friend, but that doesn't always work. I've invested in countless friendships and they always end for some reason beyond my control. It's sad and kind of depressing.
I am friendly to everyone, and not that picky. No, all of my friends don't have to be perfect. Besides, if I am the picky one, then why am I rejected, instead of rejecting others as you suggest? And why do you assume there was a huge pool of potential friends to begin with? Many Catholics are isolated nowadays.
Did you even read the OP? People left the chapel, moved away, and others betrayed me. How could my being picky cause any of that? Who leaves a geographic area because one guy is a jerk? Nevermind the fact I specifically stated I have been friendly.
If I'm a pathological liar then why even bother discussing on this thread? Forum discussion can't happen without some basic level of trust or at least benefit of the doubt. Besides, you have no reason to believe I am a liar. Normal people presume truthfulness and discuss from there. Only a troll jumps in and calls someone a liar for absolutely no reason.