As I recall Saint Thomas also said the Earth was flat and had problems dealing with the Immaculate Conception. Ephesians5:25 Husbands love your wives, as Christ loved the Church and delivered himself up for it. You talk of disciplining your wife like it is something from the 1800's women have rights to. Maybe you should separate from your wife if you feel she needs to be disciplined so much. If you have the need to discipline something so bad buy an animal.