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Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Disciplining wife
« Reply #425 on: May 29, 2020, 06:28:51 PM »
You do not seem to have read the thread so you are not in a position to judge what is going on in it.  As far as I can tell, I have been arguing with a person who is not doing moral theology at all.  He wants husbands to hit wives and he picks out phrases from Catholic teaching to justify this while ignoring or twisting everything that puts any sort of restriction on it. Cherry-picked rationalizations are not moral theology.

He is not arguing from Catholic principles.  He is not talking about the physical correction taught in Catholic sources.  He is, in his own words, exhorting men to beat their wives and telling men to not worry about being excessive. (That's just life and only a venial sin, according to him.)  He explicitly recommends beating a woman until she bleeds.  This is not a mere difference of opinion on applying principles.  He is promoting errors that, if followed, would harm the bodies of women and the souls of men.  Even if not followed, his words bring disrepute to the Church and hand her enemies a weapon for attacking us.

 

Given that the coward remains anonymous, it's always possible that this is nothing but a troll deliberately intent upon bringing disrepute to Traditional Catholicism.  We should probably ignore him until he has the courage to actually come forward.

Re: Disciplining wife
« Reply #426 on: May 29, 2020, 07:27:31 PM »
Jayne,
This is not Catholic thinking.
All crime is ultimately against God. Then our neighbor and ourselves.
God has given instruments to rectify this. Subsidiarity says that the if something can be do on the lowest level, then it should. So it is with justice. I explained my post how this would happen.
Part of justice is to correct. Punishment is not an end in itself. This is a protestant mindset.
As for St. Thomas, you can't seem to decide whether he said it was necessary or not. First you say no, then you say yes, then when cornered on it, you go back to no.

There are lots of Catholic sources talking about a husband using physical correction.  That makes sense because correcting his wife is a duty of a husband and that is a theoretically possible means to do it.  There are no Catholic sources about a husband punishing his wife for crimes against the state or to satisfy justice.  Nor is there any reason to thing that he has a duty or the authority to do so. Nor is there any reason to think that the principle of subsidiarity applies to this.

I am talking about the concepts of correction, justice and punishment as used in a Thomistic framework.  I have backed up every claim I made with quotes from the Summa. If you don't think that is Catholic thinking, what are you doing on a trad forum?

St. Thomas did not say that physical correction of a wife is necessary.  He did not use those words.  He said it was an option and so we can imagine situations in which it might be necessary.  It is not necessary in an absolute sense.  I am consistently saying the same thing. You, however, are refusing to recognize the distinctions that I am using and are pretending that there is some sort of self-contradiction.

In other words, you are guilty of ad hominems, rather than sticking to the argument.
You, aware that you are being read, are trying to discredit the person, and distract from the righteousness of discplining a wife. The thread will lead men to implement it, I hope it does. You are trying to stop this. Lets be honest.
You are making false claims about what the Church teaches and I am identifying them as false and showing that they are by contrasting them with the actual Church teachings.  That is sticking to the argument, not using ad hominems.  

This thread will not lead anyone who is honestly trying to follow Church teaching to do what you promote because it is very clear that what you say is different from Church teaching.  Of course, I would rather have people follow the Church than listen to you.  I'm Catholic.


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Re: Disciplining wife
« Reply #427 on: May 30, 2020, 05:06:27 PM »
There are lots of Catholic sources talking about a husband using physical correction.  That makes sense because correcting his wife is a duty of a husband and that is a theoretically possible means to do it.  There are no Catholic sources about a husband punishing his wife for crimes against the state or to satisfy justice.  Nor is there any reason to thing that he has a duty or the authority to do so. Nor is there any reason to think that the principle of subsidiarity applies to this.


Subsidiarity applies always.
Most crimes would be against the common good and would be public. If a wife was punished in private it would not be one for the history books. So there would be only a small amount of records about it.

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Re: Disciplining wife
« Reply #428 on: May 30, 2020, 05:07:42 PM »

St. Thomas did not say that physical correction of a wife is necessary.  He did not use those words.  He said it was an option and so we can imagine situations in which it might be necessary. 
Either he said it was necessary or not. Which is it?

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Re: Disciplining wife
« Reply #429 on: May 30, 2020, 05:08:43 PM »
Given that the coward remains anonymous, it's always possible that this is nothing but a troll deliberately intent upon bringing disrepute to Traditional Catholicism.  We should probably ignore him until he has the courage to actually come forward.
Cowards are those who won't accept Catholic teaching.
And being anonymous on a topic just makes me smarter than you. No need to be jealous.