I've had to turn to the priest before on speakerphone. I try to lay the blame on myself when possible, and not throw personal barbs, but I let the situation be known without embarrassing my husband. While my husband's usually angry at first, he's very obedient of our priest, and the priest really doesn't have to say much to right the wrong-headed thinking. In fact, the priest usually just says "I'll pray for [situation] and your whole family," and suggests we do a rosary. (My husband is a blessing, but he has a temper and shouldn't make important decisions when in that state of mind.)