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Re: Clothes for women
« Reply #10 on: July 11, 2023, 06:46:04 PM »
What sort of clothes should women wear in daily life outside of Church. Any recommendations?

 Is it appropriate to invoke my authority as husband to insist she wear skirts?
What’s wrong with dresses?  Or jumpers?  In summer, they’re much cooler than jeans, pants, etc.

If doing an activity where a dress or skirt is unsuitable—restricts movement, unsafe like could caught on machinery, or potential for immodesty, then consider culottes, a wrap around split skirt, palazzo pants, or loose fitting pants with a longish top.  Pants should look like they’re designed for women, ie.  guys wouldn’t be caught dead in them.  Another option is to wear leggings or knee length loose fitting shorts beneath a skirt or dress.  

For going out, just to do errands, I have a few simple pull over or button front dresses with elastic waist. They’re made of heavy t-shirt cotton-poly so a slip isn’t needed, mid calf length so there’s no embarrassment if I lean into the truck to load groceries or whatever.  Some are solid, some print, long, 3/4, or 1/3 sleeves.  I can jazz them up a bit with a neck scarf, side sash or other belt, a simple necklace, etc.  That way they’re suitable for a weekday Mass.  I have two outfits that I save for Sunday and Holy Days, other formal occasions.  If I need something really fancy or formal, there’s a Protestant ministry that has a clothing lending center.  You can borrow clothing for a fee.  When the clothing is returned in good condition, you get your money back.  They launder or dry clean it so you needn’t do anything but return it.  If it’s not returned, or returned ripped, heavily soiled, they keep the money. It works for me because I rarely have need of such garments.  It’d be a waste to purchase them.  



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Re: Clothes for women
« Reply #12 on: July 16, 2023, 04:22:18 PM »


For going out, just to do errands, I have a few simple pull over or button front dresses with elastic waist. They’re made of heavy t-shirt cotton-poly so a slip isn’t needed, mid calf length so there’s no embarrassment if I lean into the truck to load groceries or whatever.  Some are solid, some print, long, 3/4, or 1/3 sleeves.  I can jazz them up a bit with a neck scarf, side sash or other belt, a simple necklace, etc.  That way they’re suitable for a weekday Mass.  I have two outfits that I save for Sunday and Holy Days, other formal occasions.  If I need something really fancy or formal, there’s a Protestant ministry that has a clothing lending center.  You can borrow clothing for a fee.  When the clothing is returned in good condition, you get your money back.  They launder or dry clean it so you needn’t do anything but return it.  If it’s not returned, or returned ripped, heavily soiled, they keep the money. It works for me because I rarely have need of such garments.  It’d be a waste to purchase them. 

That sounds pretty hideous. 

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Re: Clothes for women
« Reply #13 on: July 16, 2023, 04:26:50 PM »
What’s wrong with dresses?  Or jumpers?  In summer, they’re much cooler than jeans, pants, etc.

If doing an activity where a dress or skirt is unsuitable—restricts movement, unsafe like could caught on machinery, or potential for immodesty, then consider culottes, a wrap around split skirt, palazzo pants, or loose fitting pants with a longish top.  Pants should look like they’re designed for women, ie.  guys wouldn’t be caught dead in them.  Another option is to wear leggings or knee length loose fitting shorts beneath a skirt or dress. 

For going out, just to do errands, I have a few simple pull over or button front dresses with elastic waist. They’re made of heavy t-shirt cotton-poly so a slip isn’t needed, mid calf length so there’s no embarrassment if I lean into the truck to load groceries or whatever.  Some are solid, some print, long, 3/4, or 1/3 sleeves.  I can jazz them up a bit with a neck scarf, side sash or other belt, a simple necklace, etc.  That way they’re suitable for a weekday Mass.  I have two outfits that I save for Sunday and Holy Days, other formal occasions.  If I need something really fancy or formal, there’s a Protestant ministry that has a clothing lending center.  You can borrow clothing for a fee.  When the clothing is returned in good condition, you get your money back.  They launder or dry clean it so you needn’t do anything but return it.  If it’s not returned, or returned ripped, heavily soiled, they keep the money. It works for me because I rarely have need of such garments.  It’d be a waste to purchase them. 



Have you never heard of girding loins?
There are many different types of dresses.
A woman can wear what she likes underneath the dress for insulation.

Re: Clothes for women
« Reply #14 on: July 16, 2023, 05:24:31 PM »
What sort of clothes should women wear in daily life outside of Church. Any recommendations?

 Is it appropriate to invoke my authority as husband to insist she wear skirts?
 Ask other modestly-dressed women at church to give you a list of online shops to buy modest clothing. Again, help her and give her time.
And just how is he supposed to respond to the women's husbands when they ask why he's paying so much attention to how their wives dress?
Better he search on line himself or have his wife ask other women but she won't do that until she actually wants to change.
She may not appreciate him pointing out other women's outfits either.