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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #200 on: Today at 08:07:56 AM »
Another thought.

How do you get women to submit, you love them?

How do get men to love, you submit to them?

So the million dollar question is "who will do it first?"
This is blatant feminism with a rotting veneer of fantasy fairytale false chivalry.

Love, a.k.a. CHARITY, (the Biblical definition, not the modernist ʝʊdɛօmasonic psyop) isn't about never hurting your misguided feelings. It's about dealing honestly out of a genuine wish for the ultimate good of the other person. What good is placating someone in her errors if the end result is harmful to that person's soul? What if this person's errors now harm others too, including children and unsuspecting bystanders?

Real men know this and take it seriously, no matter how much the daughters of Eve may kick and scratch. But effeminate men cave in, and then lash out at easier targets while they lick their Lillith-inflicted wounds.

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #201 on: Today at 08:10:56 AM »

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Are you able to fill this in and make it fair?
This just shows your immaturity.  The problem is not always 50/50.  Not how life works.  


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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #202 on: Today at 08:16:16 AM »

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What good is placating someone in her errors if the end result is harmful to that person's soul?
This is the same error that Gray had in regards to the thread on St Francis telling the Japanese their ancestors weren’t saved.  Women naturally placate emotions; it’s their NATURAL reaction.  With grace, we can see the proper SUPERNATURAL reaction, which is to speak the truth in uncomfortable situations.  Many women saints have achieved this.  Modern women still have trouble.  

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #203 on: Today at 08:16:27 AM »
Because all public interactions are by definition happening in a MALE realm. This is God's law. Get used to it and accept it fully in your heart. Never mind that lots of self-labeled trad women refuse this essential fact.. Women participate insofar as they contribute helpfully, not when they insist on swaying the conversation, changing the subject, making everything about them, antagonizing and chasing away moderate voices by wearing them down, etc.

Then all that remains on screen are the rightly-angered men who refuse to be verbally castrated, the swarm of longskirted mean girls who wear the pants on their souls if not on  their bodies, and the aghast rubber-neckers who need to resolve to attend to daily obligations IRL instead of gawking at this never-ending train wreck.
A perfect example of this is the murder of Quentin Déranque on the 14th of February in Lyon. 

A group of right wing nationalist women "Collective Nemesis" went to protest an islamist speaker in the town of Lyon. These women wanted security and Quentin Déranque and few other voluntered. This is their website https://www.collectif-nemesis.com/manifeste They are dressed in elegant long dresses (for the most part) and would fool many men into thinking they would make great wives.

The 23 year old Quentin was stomped on and killed by a group of leftist agitators. This was his reward for protecting these unbelievably stupid women. 

Had these women decided to behave normally and stay at home rather than engage in politics, the naive white knight Quentin would still be alive. There are too few of us to uselessly throw away lives like this.




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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #204 on: Today at 08:48:31 AM »
I am sorry for misunderstanding.

The dynamics? 

The best dynamic is praying and trusting God.  Every single couple story is different from everyone else's.  The only common denominator in successful Catholic marriages is that the man and woman trusted God to find their match.
More evidence of a worldly infection. No, that's the тαℓмυdic notion of "bashert" that your one-and-only alleged soulmate is assigned to you before you're even born. Too, the classical pagan myth of the tragically divided androgyne, as described by Aristophenes. ("Explain!" she pouts. Sorry, don't expect spoonfed Cliff Notes, research it yourself, you can do it.)

Don't forget about God's permissive will, unquestioning belief in which is the trait of genuine Catholics, not of heretics or the lukewarm. Sometimes God allows us to suffer a difficult spouse as a thorn in our side, as a cross to carry, in order to purify us. Why might might not ever be understandable in this mortal life, but we accept it no less. Ask your husband.