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« Reply #135 on: Today at 05:07:32 PM »
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  • Excellent long post 


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    It’s not the only way we can release pent up aggression, we do plenty of actual fighting, arguing, battling, and ranting in real life. Masculine energy belongs in the public square. 

    As a man I want to quickly mention this, particularly what you said about female emotional abuse. For most men nowadays we don't have a public square except for anonymous internet forums, we literally run for risk of losing jobs and other things by speaking up with our real name or in public real life. And many of this is done by petty tyrant women who don't belong in positions of authority.

    Also, when I was a child I had several female teachers (middle ages probably around menopause) who I felt were picking on me. They never acknowledged my efforts, they did not understand my emotional outbursts (i was a sensitive child), from my perspective it felt like they were out to get me, simply because I was a boy who used aggression and violence to get my way and not some passive cuck if I felt that someone wronged me. Yeah it's not good behaviour for boys to throw chairs and tables at teachers, but how else do you expect a child to 'beat' an adult? These teachers never once even tried to talk to me properly or explain things like a man should. Zero-tolerance nonsense is extremely unjust.

    Boys to not sit still and behave like girls. Many refuse to accept this truth. If a child does not have proper parenting because the parents are always working or they feminist brainwashing then the child will grow up without a proper an deep understanding of the differences between men and women and has to resort to self learning on the internet. Most today do not understand these differences at a deep level, i still struggle somewhat with it, but many don't even try to learn. The long poster above clearly does understand, his post was articulate and charitable.

    I can't articulate so well (especially on mobile) but I think he is intelligent enough to understand what I'm talking about in my first 2 paragraphs.

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    « Reply #136 on: Today at 05:10:30 PM »
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  • Where are they hiding all the young, single, Feeneyite women?  :incense: :popcorn:
    There was one on this forum a few years ago, she got banned for something else. There were a few on twitter, they blocked my because I reposted Dimond content and because some twitter Dimondites were following me, as if it is a problem if they follow me :facepalm:.


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    « Reply #137 on: Today at 05:24:56 PM »
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  • I am the ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ remark poster. That long post just now was absolutely epic. 
    We need to have an annual, top 5 posts of cathinfo awards ceremony. Cos that would be in the top five for sure. 

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    « Reply #138 on: Today at 05:34:23 PM »
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  • I also wanted to quote what I thought were the best parts of that long post. At least the parts that struck me.


    "when all the average young guy wants is the acknowledgement that “Yeah bro, you’re not crazy it’s really messed up. Here’s a beer and a burger, let’s see if there’s anything we can work on that will make things suck less.” "


    "The world young men have inherited is on fire. Being aware of the problem, seeing little evidence that your forebears did anything to put out the flames, and suspecting you'll face all of it alone without the comfort of a wife and children to give your suffering greater meaning is depressing.
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    " It's like you declaring the job market is fine, having not applied for a job in 20 years, and certainly not having applied for a job since 2020. You are not qualified to comment on how bad things really are out there for young men, you do not have the authority to correct strange men in a public space, and you engaging in multiple internet arguments with men you don't know is unladylike, unbecoming of a Catholic woman, and embarrassing to your husband. If my wife behaved in this manner I would be mortified."


    Indeed, it is the charitable responsibility of the male community to point out your errors loudly and repeatedly, and tell you to go to your husband with contrition, have him read your posting history, and submit to him curbing your poor behavior online."

    One of the lines that I also thought was good, especially because I was trying to verbalize it was this one:

    "You are on a website for Catholic Trads pushing feminist Overton Window narratives when the culture pendulum of men reasserting their masculinity is swinging back at your head."

    This is so true that many boomers don't understand how much young men are actually more masculine than they fathers, and it is EXTREMELY annoying to be met with patronizing nonsense and denial about that, ESPECIALLY from a woman.

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    « Reply #139 on: Today at 05:43:06 PM »
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  • To the long poster.

    First you have some good points.  Thank you.

    But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

    Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

    And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

    Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

    May all have a blessed Lent.


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    « Reply #140 on: Today at 05:44:11 PM »
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  • To the long poster.

    First you have some good points.  Thank you.

    But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

    Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

    And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

    Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

    May all have a blessed Lent.
    Me, but you knew that.
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    Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
    « Reply #141 on: Today at 06:41:22 PM »
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  • To the long poster.

    First you have some good points.  Thank you.

    But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

    Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

    And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

    Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

    May all have a blessed Lent.
    Something men learn pretty early is that nobody gives a flying crap what your intent is when you screw up. It's best to own that you screwed up, regardless of your intent, assist in fixing the problem if requested, and then move on. Men are very forgiving when that happens. Mr Gray is probably a pretty decent guy. But through your unbridled public displays of incontinence, my impression of him isn't favorable and that's on you. And since your posting patterns are responsible for this, it's 100% in your control to fix. If Mr Gray feels attacked, have him DM me. I didn't realize I'd not checked the box.

    Respect for your husband begins with you. If you don't signal with your actions and internet behavior that you respect him, why should anyone? Ask him to sit down, explain the problem, have him go through your posting history, and adjudicate the issue privately. But you'd rather have strangers on the internet resolve the situation through an internet poll. Do you not understand how weird that is? There are all kinds of speculative things I could say about what that indicates and none of them are good.

    Have a blessed, repentant, and silent Lent

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    Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
    « Reply #142 on: Today at 08:24:32 PM »
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  • This is so true that many boomers don't understand how much young men are actually more masculine than they fathers, and it is EXTREMELY annoying to be met with patronizing nonsense and denial about that, ESPECIALLY from a woman.
    Yes it's very annoying/frustrating when your legitimate concerns simply get dismissed/waved away.