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« Reply #105 on: February 15, 2026, 05:19:59 PM »
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  • Lol nice try.

    But seriously, I think the parents often have nice ideas sometimes, but dont carry them through. The father especially.
    Fathers get the slightest resistance from their daughters and leave it at that.
    But women need their fathers, now more than ever to help them find a man. Otherwise they will either get sullied, or become totally weird and frigid. Like so many trads I see everywhere.
    Yeah but if the wife is not obedient to the husband it greatly effects the daughters in a negative manner.

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    « Reply #106 on: February 15, 2026, 05:21:31 PM »
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  • Why do you assume this person has a problem with screens, even pornography?? Which is a mortal sin by the way (looking at porn not your comment).

    Do you realise that even an average looking women is cute when she is young and slim? Don't forget it's not normal for women to be getting married 25+, this is all modern attacks against establishing large healthy families.
    Are you afraid God won't provide a good spouse for you?
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    « Reply #107 on: February 15, 2026, 07:50:04 PM »
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  • Are you afraid God won't provide a good spouse for you?
    Yes, God has not promised these things, He has only promised salvation to those who correspond with His will/grace. I have great confidence that God will provide me the graces I ask for in-order to save my soul. But I have no guarantee that I am to be married. It's more an issue of impatience. As we get older we tend to become more aware of our own aging, the skin is not as bright and glowly as before, it starts to sag, become dull and lines form. There is also an issue with temptations, is is very hard for young people to deal with sins of the flesh, some more than others. Yet despite St Paul saying it better to marry than to burn (in hell), there is almost no recourse to marriage due to the economy, housing ponzi and feminism. For a person to marry the stars have to align, and perhaps they will do so in the future for me, but for now I must suffer and hope.

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    « Reply #108 on: February 15, 2026, 08:31:05 PM »
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  • Yes, God has not promised these things, He has only promised salvation to those who correspond with His will/grace. I have great confidence that God will provide me the graces I ask for in-order to save my soul. But I have no guarantee that I am to be married. It's more an issue of impatience. As we get older we tend to become more aware of our own aging, the skin is not as bright and glowly as before, it starts to sag, become dull and lines form. There is also an issue with temptations, is is very hard for young people to deal with sins of the flesh, some more than others. Yet despite St Paul saying it better to marry than to burn (in hell), there is almost no recourse to marriage due to the economy, housing ponzi and feminism. For a person to marry the stars have to align, and perhaps they will do so in the future for me, but for now I must suffer and hope.
    I know suffering is hard, but maybe knowing that it is not in vain, will help you persevere in the challenges God gives you.  Prayers for you.

    Lately I have been thinking about men's more natural ability toward discipline.  Many men seem to get very focused on ideas and become experts.  I don't know if it is just me, but it seems that women don't possess such laser like focus.  Sometimes I am jealous, (not in an evil way), I just wish that skill set came more naturally to me.
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    « Reply #109 on: February 15, 2026, 08:47:14 PM »
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  • Remember to blame the victim goy



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    « Reply #110 on: February 15, 2026, 08:49:11 PM »
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  • I know suffering is hard, but maybe knowing that it is not in vain, will help you persevere in the challenges God gives you.  Prayers for you.

    Lately I have been thinking about men's more natural ability toward discipline.  Many men seem to get very focused on ideas and become experts.  I don't know if it is just me, but it seems that women don't possess such laser like focus.  Sometimes I am jealous, (not in an evil way), I just wish that skill set came more naturally to me.
    One of the problems with the modern world is that focus is easily wasted, either by the screen or jobs that go nowhere, or get given to immigrants/AI etc. Just look at Mathew, he is an older experienced man with YEARS of experience in his field yet even he is struggling to find work related to his career. It's insane.

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    « Reply #111 on: February 15, 2026, 08:58:46 PM »
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  • Yes, God has not promised these things, He has only promised salvation to those who correspond with His will/grace. I have great confidence that God will provide me the graces I ask for in-order to save my soul. But I have no guarantee that I am to be married. It's more an issue of impatience. As we get older we tend to become more aware of our own aging, the skin is not as bright and glowly as before, it starts to sag, become dull and lines form. There is also an issue with temptations, is is very hard for young people to deal with sins of the flesh, some more than others. Yet despite St Paul saying it better to marry than to burn (in hell), there is almost no recourse to marriage due to the economy, housing ponzi and feminism. For a person to marry the stars have to align, and perhaps they will do so in the future for me, but for now I must suffer and hope.
    https://schismatic-home-aloner.com/miracles-unbelief-mark-6-5-6/
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    In Mark 6 we read that Jesus went to His hometown and He was unable to perform mighty works there.

    Mark 6:5-6- “And he could do no mighty work there, except that he laid his hands on a few sick people and healed them.  And he marveled because of their unbelief.”

    The passage connects the lack of miracles performed by the Lord in that place with the lack of belief among the people.  This doesn’t mean that Jesus was absolutely incapable of performing miracles there, but that it was unfitting and incompatible with God’s will to grant such miracles to people who were unbelieving and of such bad will.

    St. Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologiae, Pt. 3, Q. 43, A. 2, Reply to Obj. 1: “When it is said that He could not do any miracles there, it is not to be understood that He could not do them absolutely, but that it was not fitting for Him to do them: for it was unfitting for Him to work miracles among unbelievers.  Wherefore is it is said farther on: And He marveled at their unbelief.”

    Antoine Augustin Calmet, French Benedictine Scripture Scholar, Commentarius literalis in omnes libros Veteris et Novi Testamenti, Vol. 7, p. 309 (Commentary on Mark 6:5), AD 1756: “… truly He did not want to [work miracles there], since the ungrateful and faithless citizens had placed an obstacle to His mercy.  He willed to grant no benefits to the unappreciative, and to show no indications of His wondrous power to those who neglected Him.  Commonly it is expressed thus: ‘I cannot strike [someone] with the sword, nor can I spare him.’  It is not however absolutely denied that this is possible, but rather we say that we are opposed to doing it because our will is reluctant.”

    Mark 6 teaches us that when faith and good will are absent, God typically will not grant miracles.  This explains why many public miracles were performed in the ages of faith and why such public miracles have mostly been withdrawn the final days, when almost the entire world lacks faith and good will (Luke 18:8).


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    Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
    « Reply #112 on: Yesterday at 02:05:48 AM »
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  • Enough already.  You have no idea what other people think and then to attack with such a foul idea.  I don't know who you are, but you need to learn not to say everything you think.
    Because you are so stubbornly against learning the truth does not mean other people are


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    Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
    « Reply #113 on: Yesterday at 05:16:09 AM »
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  • Because you are so stubbornly against learning the truth does not mean other people are
    Calling someone's son a quaisi-ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ is not a truth.You really need to unlearn that behavior. That is a rash judgment.

    And if you are going to call it Holy Anger you are probably wrong  because just like humility if you say you have it, then it is guaranteed you don't.
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    « Reply #114 on: Yesterday at 06:40:57 AM »
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  • No it's behavior you cant understand.
    Because you are a woman and have a limited intelligence. 
    Proof why women should not really be on the internet at all, or at least with tight control from the men in their lives.

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    « Reply #115 on: Yesterday at 10:30:26 AM »
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  • No it's behavior you cant understand.
    Because you are a woman and have a limited intelligence.
    Proof why women should not really be on the internet at all, or at least with tight control from the men in their lives.
    Well at least i am not a coward.  Since we don't know who you are we don't know your intelligence level.  And I bet there are women smarter than you?
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    « Reply #116 on: Yesterday at 04:25:41 PM »
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  • lol. Literally proving my point that you're not understanding. Goodness. :facepalm:

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    « Reply #117 on: Yesterday at 07:46:43 PM »
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  • Well at least i am not a coward.  Since we don't know who you are we don't know your intelligence level.  And I bet there are women smarter than you?
    It might be wise to conclude that these threads raging against women are probably started to troll and start more arguments.   Especially when they are written anonymously. 

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  • It might be wise to conclude that these threads raging against women are probably started to troll and start more arguments.  Especially when they are written anonymously.
    I guess it is the only way they can release all that pent up aggression (not necessarily a negative comment, men need to fight, argue, battle, rant, etc, sometimes).  I just wish they would go do it in the men's only part.  If they are going to rant at women, they have to expect that we might not agree with maybe their more barbaric ways. It doesn't mean we aren't intelligent. It just means that are feminine ways might prefer a more harmonious approach, but as some of the men seem to constantly say, if you can't handle the way men are, then get off the internet.  :cowboy:
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    « Reply #119 on: Today at 12:21:21 AM »
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  • Calling someone's son a quaisi-ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ is not a truth.You really need to unlearn that behavior. That is a rash judgment.

    And if you are going to call it Holy Anger you are probably wrong  because just like humility if you say you have it, then it is guaranteed you don't.
    The following is taken from "The Glories of Mary" by St. Alphonsus Liguori, the section on the humility of Mary: 

    The first act of humility of heart is to have an humble opinion of ourselves; and Mary always thought so lowly of herself, as was revealed to the same St. Matilda, that although she saw so many more graces bestowed upon her than upon others, she preferred all others before herself.§ Rupert the Abbot, explaining that passage, "Thou hast wounded my heart, my sister, my spouse .... with one hair of thy neck,"(Canticles 4:9) says, that this hair of the neck of the spouse was precisely that humble opinion which Mary had of herself, with which she wounded the heart of God.

    Not that the holy Virgin esteemed herself a sinner, for humility is truth, as St. Theresa says, and Mary knew that she had never offended God; nor that she did not confess having received greater graces from God than any other creature, for an humble heart always acknowledges the special favours of the Lord, that it may humble itself the more; but the divine mother, by the greater light she had to see the infinite greatness and goodness of her God, saw still more her own littleness, and therefore more than all others did she humiliate herself, and say with the spouse of the Canticles: "Do not consider that I am brown because the sun hath altered my colour."


    Our Lady herself knew she possessed more virtue than others, but that was not pride, it was a recognition of the graces God was pleased to bestow upon her and as was said above, it led her to greater humility. The point is, one may justly and humbly recognize the virtues one possesses as being the gift of God, and give Him glory for it. That is not pride. What would be pride, is attributing the good to oneself.