Yes, but if a woman can't have children at 20, she won't be able to have kids at all. Fertility is pretty much maxed out at that age.

Eh it's more so that as a women gets older she gets less desirable, same with most men (balding, old looking etc). But at 30 it's VERY HARD for a women to have children. not impossible but very difficult. I know a Catholic lady who got married around 27, she has 5+ kids now. Obviously 27 is still several years before 30 but 27-28 is really when ladies with even slight wits begin to panic as the last train for motherhood is about to depart. Leaving it off any later is playing a dangerous game of never having children, and I know some people with no children, not sure what prevented offspring but perhaps it was age.

How do I cope with FOMO of not getting to marry a cute 18yr old virgin? I have little to no interest in 'old' women. Girls just lose so much youthful charm after 19.

Assuming you're not being sarcastic, this is a problem I think.

There are many men who never got a "cute 18 year old virgin". Even if they managed to find a virgin, she probably wasn't "conventionally beautiful" as in most men would be after her, and she probably wasn't 18, either.

How many men actually get an ideal or "cute" 18 year old for a wife? Probably less than 1/10th of 1%. You need to turn off the screens and/or pornography. Just like women, men can distort their minds by feeding in selected top 1% specimens of the opposite sex, so that they end up looking down on 100% of the opposite sex in their own city. That's a You problem.

So realize how high you are placing yourself here. Philosophizing about the ideal is one thing. You getting or "deserving" that ideal is beyond delusional. Most men, even married men, gave up on your current dream long ago.

You probably have a crummy marriage, that's why you sound so miserable. Maybe have some empathy for single men who struggle.

As one of the men posting against her I agree.

Crummy in the sense that her husband never corrects her or takes interest in her advancing in virtue.

I recently spoke to a priest about this. A priest well into his 80s and a resistance priest. 

He told me of story where a husband and wife, and at a certain point the priest realised that the husband had never once corrected his wife. He was telling me this story obviously because it is a bad thing!

Assuming you're not being sarcastic, this is a problem I think.

There are many men who never got a "cute 18 year old virgin". Even if they managed to find a virgin, she probably wasn't "conventionally beautiful" as in most men would be after her, and she probably wasn't 18, either.

How many men actually get an ideal or "cute" 18 year old for a wife? Probably less than 1/10th of 1%. You need to turn off the screens and/or pornography. Just like women, men can distort their minds by feeding in selected top 1% specimens of the opposite sex, so that they end up looking down on 100% of the opposite sex in their own city. That's a You problem.

So realize how high you are placing yourself here. Philosophizing about the ideal is one thing. You getting or "deserving" that ideal is beyond delusional. Most men, even married men, gave up on your current dream long ago.

A (wicked) feminine man always manages to turn things around and blame the man. That's what you are doing. Somehow it is HIS fault, not the fathers of the women who behave disgracefully.

Men are not fussy. As long as a woman is reasonably attractive and not obese, and obviously a virgin (that should go without saying that she is not a whore), then they will take what they can get.

Problem is they can't even get that now these days. It's completely insane. I know so many single traditional men who are quite good looking and pious, and despite their best efforts have not been able to lock down a correspondingly good woman. It's absolute hell out there.

I have met so many traditional families and they go to the opposite extreme of the world where they have the most weird ideas for their daughters and as a result the girls, knowing what they are up against (with their father, or domineering mother), just dont fight it. It's truly lamentable. 

Would that trad parents be conscious of the scandal they cause by behaving in such a way as to deny their children good spouses.

Maybe they plan on arranging their marriages lol?

Lol nice try.

But seriously, I think the parents often have nice ideas sometimes, but dont carry them through. The father especially.
Fathers get the slightest resistance from their daughters and leave it at that. 
But women need their fathers, now more than ever to help them find a man. Otherwise they will either get sullied, or become totally weird and frigid. Like so many trads I see everywhere. 

"Yeah, maybe these disgruntled men commenting need to take a deep look at themselves.  If it is God's will for you to marry, He will provide.  Maybe you are not suitable material at this point in your life to be a loving husband and father.  Maybe, many of you unmarried men complaining, have a wrong view of marriage and would lord it over your wife making her despise you."

Are you blind? Look at the language she uses. No empathy at all. Sounds miserable to me.

I don't know about that poster, but I am not blind to your  bully tendencies....reminds me of this post,  "You know female bullies are worse than male ones. I've been through it myself. Female bullies do the most dirties tricks to hurt and belittle you."

And you literally proved my point, congrats.

Lol . My thoughts exactly.

This is the point where she either doubles down, or realizes that the fact that everyone, even other women are speaking against her, means she is just wrong.