What are you talking about? I never said anything about obstacles to grace. I said that we are starting with a sinful society that is full of relativism and modernism and we don't know what it looks like to not have those things all around us. We are starting with more to overcome. Yes all the graces you need are there to overcome it, but instead of starting with a proper Catholic education and world we are starting with the worst case scenario. We need more patience to help each other, not less.
Where sin abounds, grace abounds more.
And unfortunately all the women born after 1950 or maybe earlier have a harder time. Modern women don't have very many real world examples and many of us learn by experiences and practical application, not just by reading a book.
To overcome natural reactions, the solution is the supernatural.
World life examples, learning by experience, practical, blah, blah, blah ... this is all human solutions to supernatural problems. Will never work.
What works is grace, which is had by prayer. That's the solution.
There is no easy vs hard circuмstances, there is only more or less prayer.
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