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Now I'm waiting for how soon some woman on here will post that their church is overflowing with lovely single classy Catholic women.

Lovely and classy, perhaps according to the "nithe" feelings-based superficial standards of these female posters... not so much for the men who court them honestly and bravely, and then make the mistake of marrying and having children with them, to the detriment of the next generation as well. 

If you have a question about intent, don't be afraid to ask, but don't judge based on just the actions.

   

NO ONE CAN KNOW ANYONE'S INTENTIONS, UNLESS YOU TELL THEM.  95% of judgements are based on actions.  You're an adult and you can't grasp this concept?   Only God can judge intentions.  

 

NO ONE CAN KNOW ANYONE'S INTENTIONS, UNLESS YOU TELL THEM.  95% of judgements are based on actions.  You're an adult and you can't grasp this concept?  Only God can judge intentions. 

But you can ask for clarification and not make rash judgments or make assumptions.  You can give the poster the benefit of doubt.

It is the charitable thing to do. 

The only reason to assume the worst intention is to cause a scene and humiliate people.  It is done to make someone less credible.  

Frankly I just don't care anymore.  If you are offended good, if you are not good.  

In fact if you decide it is your job to assume authority over me, I am going to assume that I struck a nerve and planted a good seed.  If I cause another post like the long one above I am going to take it as a compliment.  That post was filled with so many rash adjustments and attacks at my husband and myself it was appalling.  The fact that people joined in with middle school like behavior is laughable.  Being a women is not about being a door mat.

Go ahead do your worst  but the saddest thing is that when people see wrong being done they don't defend they just let it happen.

Lucky for me I have a real group of friends that are good Catholics, both male and female, who find it funny that my persona on here is such and constantly encourage me to leave.  Why I don't leave, that is in God's hands?  I came on here by accident and I will leave at some point because I choose to (or I am ordered to by my authorities) or I have broke the rules and Matthew kicks me off.

If you have made it this far.  I wasn't going to make a response unless the thread was  pushed to the top by someone else.  It was, so I wrote.  Prayers for all.