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Online Gray2023

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #140 on: February 17, 2026, 05:44:11 PM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2026, 05:43:06 PM
To the long poster.

First you have some good points.  Thank you.

But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

May all have a blessed Lent.
Me, but you knew that.
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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #141 on: February 17, 2026, 06:41:22 PM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2026, 05:43:06 PM
To the long poster.

First you have some good points.  Thank you.

But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

May all have a blessed Lent.
Something men learn pretty early is that nobody gives a flying crap what your intent is when you screw up. It's best to own that you screwed up, regardless of your intent, assist in fixing the problem if requested, and then move on. Men are very forgiving when that happens. Mr Gray is probably a pretty decent guy. But through your unbridled public displays of incontinence, my impression of him isn't favorable and that's on you. And since your posting patterns are responsible for this, it's 100% in your control to fix. If Mr Gray feels attacked, have him DM me. I didn't realize I'd not checked the box.

Respect for your husband begins with you. If you don't signal with your actions and internet behavior that you respect him, why should anyone? Ask him to sit down, explain the problem, have him go through your posting history, and adjudicate the issue privately. But you'd rather have strangers on the internet resolve the situation through an internet poll. Do you not understand how weird that is? There are all kinds of speculative things I could say about what that indicates and none of them are good.

Have a blessed, repentant, and silent Lent
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Änσnymσus

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #142 on: February 17, 2026, 08:24:32 PM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2026, 05:34:23 PM
This is so true that many boomers don't understand how much young men are actually more masculine than they fathers, and it is EXTREMELY annoying to be met with patronizing nonsense and denial about that, ESPECIALLY from a woman.
Yes it's very annoying/frustrating when your legitimate concerns simply get dismissed/waved away.
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Änσnymσus

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #143 on: February 18, 2026, 07:32:39 AM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2026, 05:43:06 PM
To the long poster.

First you have some good points.  Thank you.

But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.

Nobody likes to be misrepresented.

And women especially do not like their family attacked, but that seems to be how you think people should behave. There is nothing I can do to change your mind.

Will I stop? I don't know.  If someone made a poll about me getting off the forum and a majority wanted me to leave. I would leave.

May all have a blessed Lent.



ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ remark poster here.

Please pick up any catechism. Where you will learn about how "intent" is not good enough.

Our actions have OBJECTIVE value also.
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Änσnymσus

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #144 on: February 18, 2026, 08:25:41 AM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2026, 05:43:06 PM
To the long poster.

First you have some good points.  Thank you.

But I think your interpretation of my intent is incorrect.
The only person who knows your intent, is you.

We are criticizing you based on what you write and based on your actions.
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