This is actually so brutal, I feel bad for her.

Ladies if you do not understand the issue with this women I will explain it to you, though I think the ALL the men on this forum can easily point it out.
It SOUNDS reasonable (it always does!) but when you think about it more than 30 seconds, it all unravels.
1. "smart, handsome" -- she is looking for Chad who also happens to be a saint. How can she hope for a 10, when she is (objectively) a 3 or a 6? What awesome stuff does she bring to the table? She never mentioned anything about her skills, what she has to offer, etc. in her whole rant.
"I went on two dates with two different guys who are nice but not my type." - huge red flag. Again, it seems that she is fishing outside her league.
2. She blames her family for skipping over her -- that sure sounds mean and unfair. I'm sure there's another side to this story! Parents don't just treat one child like trash. I'm not buying it.
3. She wants to find a guy "at the finish line" rather than picking out a man with *potential* and then growing with him through a long married life. Yes, a man isn't going to drastically change. But waiting at the finish line is the BS way of going about it.