My first son, who is 3 years old and a very ACTIVE boy, is now always doing all kind of gross little things. Examples: spitting everywhere, booger picking, erupting, pouring liquids at the table, among other eeewwww things. He is doing all this on purpose and then he laughs. It is very disruptive, especially for the girls. How should I handle this type of behavior in little boys? Of course, I want him to have good manners but don't want him to become effeminate.
None of my daughters have exhibited this type of behavior so this is the first time for me.
I am, (you guessed it), mom. Dad is absent for the most part due to work.