If you have no intention of practicing the Catholic religion and do not intend to raise your children as practicing Catholics, they are better off not being baptized.  Catholic baptism places the responsibility of practicing the Catholic Faith upon the one who is baptized.  If you and your spouse do not practice the Catholic religion, your children will not, either, yet God will hold you and them (when of age) accountable.  

The molestation and cover up is still going on today...And you all say I will be judged because I dont want to attend mass regularly? 

I was raised catholic, attended religious education, was confirmed, and then the priest molestation story broke and I no longer had faith in the church as a whole. I love Jesus and live to obey his teachings and be kind to all. I really want my children to be baptized, but I can't find a priest anywhere who will do it if we are not active members of a church. I also do not have 2 godparents that are practicing Catholics. I don't want to return to the church on a regular basis. Any help?

You have to honestly examine your conscience and ask yourself whether you're not just using the molestation scandal as an EXCUSE not to be a practicing Catholic, and that you don't in fact have ulterior motives.  Your line:  "I don't want to return to the church on a regular basis." might be a clue.

The molestation and cover up is still going on today...And you all say I will be judged because I dont want to attend mass regularly?

There are some priests who did these horrible things, it's true. But there are still many good priests who have been tarred with that same brush undeservedly. The actions of those bad priests do not relieve you of the responsibility to practice the Faith devoutly and to raise your children in the Catholic faith properly. Lots of doctors, teachers, police etc have been arrested for heinous acts against children in their charge; does that stop you from obtaining the services of their colleagues? If you don't believe in the Catholic faith enough to attend Mass, then you must just want trappings of Baptism, Confirmation, etc for the fancy celebrations and photo ops they will provide. Raise your children in the Church, and keep a watchful eye on everyone they come in contact with-
including priests.

The molestation and cover up is still going on today...And you all say I will be judged because I dont want to attend mass regularly?

Lines like this are invariably signs of a bad conscience.  This person left the Church for other motives and is using the pervert scandal as rationalization for the bad conscience.  Especially the little tidbit about not wanting to attend Mass "regularly".  If it were a position of principle, the person would refuse to attend Mass EVER, not just "regularly".  You've outed yourself.  Hopefully you can see yourself clearly before you die and are judged for having left the Church.

Now, the tendency is for everyone to pussyfoot around these snowflakes who claim to be scandalized but are really using that as an excuse to do what they want.  They readily pounce on things like this to justify their bad consciences in their own minds ... but it doesn't work.  I think that the firm response is what's called for, not the snow-flake-appeasement angle.

So, to answer your question, yes, you will be judged.  Just as the ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ perverts will be judged for their crimes, so you will be judged for having left the Church founded by Jesus Christ.  God will not judge you for their crimes, but He will not let you off the hook on account of their crimes either.

That is, baptized newborn infant's unto death- ( not 'children")- correction of last sentence above

Why would canon law prohibit the baptism of an infant that will not be raised Catholic?  Give the kid a chance at least...

Council of Florence, Cantate Domino (1441): "The most Holy Roman Church firmly believes, professes and preaches that none of those existing outside the Catholic Church, not only pagans, but also Jєωs and heretics and schismatics, can have a share in life eternal; but that they will go into the "eternal fire which was prepared for the devil and his angels" (Matthew 25:41), unless before death they are joined with Her; and that so important is the unity of this ecclesiastical body that only those remaining within this unity can profit by the sacraments of the Church unto salvation, and they alone can receive an eternal recompense for their fasts, their almsgivings, their other works of Christian piety and the duties of a Christian soldier. No one, let his almsgiving be as great as it may, no one, even if he pours out his blood for the Name of Christ, can be saved, unless he remains within the bosom and the unity of the Catholic Church."

The same council also ruled that those who die in original sin, but without mortal sin, will also find punishment in hell, but unequally. "But the souls of those who depart this life in actual mortal sin, or in original sin alone, go down straightaway to hell to be punished, but with unequal pains."

The Church didn't say there was a limbo, happy place, almost heaven for unbaptized. The Catholic Church was established by Christ to give grace. One can only receive His grace if they have been baptized.  So where is the harm in baptizing an infant.  If they die in sin they go to the same hell as baptized Catholics.  If they died without baptism they would "go down straightaway to hell to be punished."