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Attend funeral of apostate parent?
« on: April 16, 2018, 03:55:06 PM »
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  • The explanation of the 4th Commandment in the Catechism of the Council of Trent says
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    Finally, we honour our parents, even after their death, by attending their funerals, procuring for them suitable obsequies and burial, having due suffrages and anniversary Masses offered for them, and faithfully executing their last wills.
    But what if the parent hates and refuses traditional Catholic priests, wants Novus Ordo "sacraments" (such as receiving "communion" from a woman or other abominations), and has a Novus Ordo funeral. Is a child obliged to attend such a funeral?


    Offline JezusDeKoning

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #1 on: April 16, 2018, 05:06:17 PM »
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  • Yes, it's your parent. Anything more need to be said?
    Remember O most gracious Virgin Mary...


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #2 on: April 16, 2018, 05:35:32 PM »
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  • Absolutely, and showing proper respect.
    "Let God arise, and let His enemies be scattered: and them that hate Him flee from before His Holy Face"  Psalm 67:2[/b]


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #3 on: April 16, 2018, 05:41:41 PM »
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  • So long as you are not actively participating, you may attend. 
    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. (Matthew 24:24)

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #4 on: April 16, 2018, 06:12:27 PM »
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  • You may, but don't participate, just sit it out.  Then when you think of traditional masses, have them said "for your intentions".  

    My mom was new order and had the new order mess.  My siblings dressed her in every day clothing, fall jacket!, wearing a purple veil! I just could not believe how she was presented!  But new order says dress them as they were seen casually! (not like they are going to God, which they think everyone is going to)


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #5 on: April 16, 2018, 08:14:46 PM »
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  • Time to pray the Rosary.  


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #6 on: April 16, 2018, 08:15:40 PM »
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  • And women handing out Eucharist is an insult to the Priesthood. 

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #7 on: April 16, 2018, 09:22:44 PM »
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  • Yes, it's your parent. Anything more need to be said?
    Yes, there is. The New Mass is a great sacrilege. One is never allowed to commit a sacrilege or even a venial sin. God comes first. Think vertically and not horizontally. 


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #8 on: April 18, 2018, 04:45:13 AM »
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  • The explanation of the 4th Commandment in the Catechism of the Council of Trent saysBut what if the parent hates and refuses traditional Catholic priests, wants Novus Ordo "sacraments" (such as receiving "communion" from a woman or other abominations), and has a Novus Ordo funeral. Is a child obliged to attend such a funeral?
    The fourth commandment says that we should honor our parents. No matter what the problems you had with them I think you should go their funeral. You can reconcile with them by praying for the repose of their souls.
    For me it is not a question of obligation. I will pray for them that the perpetual light may shine on them and also for you.

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #9 on: April 18, 2018, 07:38:19 AM »
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  • The fourth commandment says that we should honor our parents. No matter what the problems you had with them I think you should go their funeral. You can reconcile with them by praying for the repose of their souls.
    For me it is not a question of obligation. I will pray for them that the perpetual light may shine on them and also for you.
    Poche..... He is always a horizontal thinker. If some liberal hadn't invented humanism first then Poche would have. Ever hear these words from the Son Of God in the Gospel, Poche?: [check the end of the Gospel in the Mass for Saint Valentine]:"Anyone who loves mother or father, brother or sister" etc. more than Me is not worthy of Me. Now that's vertical thinking! That kind of thinking will get you to Heaven,Poche. Not the sentimental "theology" you wallow in.

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #10 on: April 18, 2018, 10:05:15 AM »
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  • These comments are pathetic.  Its a terrible example to set for your own children.  Is that what you have devolved into?  The traditional community has fractured across the spectrum.  The word "Tradition" has become a relative term.  When you pass away, what traditional sect will you or your children belong to? Would you want your son's family not to attend your funeral because they belong to the Boston cult, or are a strict SSPX aficionado?  If the SSPX goes full potato in the Novus Ordo then and they don't leave, are you going to disown them? People need to quit trying to sound smarter than they are....Horizontal and Vertical thinking....bah... Have a problem with women distributing Communion, good then don't receive it.  Have a problem with the NO heresies, good then don't attend outside of this circuмstance. Have a Mass offered afterwards.  How many pedofilic traditional priests are moved, recycled, or hidden?  We know about a few and have had them brought to light here, but how many have been suppressed and hidden? Our chapel was in one of those rotations and we still attend Mass.  We live in a very difficult time.  Its your own mother or father's funeral.  Go and attend.


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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #11 on: April 18, 2018, 07:00:32 PM »
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  • What if the "funeral" is really a "non-religious memorial service"? Is it permissible not to attend in that case?

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #12 on: April 18, 2018, 09:23:52 PM »
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  • These comments are pathetic.  Its a terrible example to set for your own children.  Is that what you have devolved into?  The traditional community has fractured across the spectrum.  The word "Tradition" has become a relative term.  When you pass away, what traditional sect will you or your children belong to? Would you want your son's family not to attend your funeral because they belong to the Boston cult, or are a strict SSPX aficionado?  If the SSPX goes full potato in the Novus Ordo then and they don't leave, are you going to disown them? People need to quit trying to sound smarter than they are....Horizontal and Vertical thinking....bah... Have a problem with women distributing Communion, good then don't receive it.  Have a problem with the NO heresies, good then don't attend outside of this circuмstance. Have a Mass offered afterwards.  How many pedofilic traditional priests are moved, recycled, or hidden?  We know about a few and have had them brought to light here, but how many have been suppressed and hidden? Our chapel was in one of those rotations and we still attend Mass.  We live in a very difficult time.  Its your own mother or father's funeral.  Go and attend.
    Yes. As long as it is your relative or someone you love you can do whatever you want in this circuмstance--God's honor be ignored. People come first always--then our Redeemer. Long live sentimental theology. Witnessing sacrilege in silence is always permissible--according to the above liberal. Relativism....bah!

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #13 on: April 18, 2018, 10:31:03 PM »
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  • Poche..... He is always a horizontal thinker. If some liberal hadn't invented humanism first then Poche would have. Ever hear these words from the Son Of God in the Gospel, Poche?: [check the end of the Gospel in the Mass for Saint Valentine]:"Anyone who loves mother or father, brother or sister" etc. more than Me is not worthy of Me. Now that's vertical thinking! That kind of thinking will get you to Heaven,Poche. Not the sentimental "theology" you wallow in.
    Even if he was a very bad man, he was still your father. I am not asking you to approve any errors or bad behavior that he engaged in. You should still at least pray for the repose of his soul.  

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    Re: Attend funeral of apostate parent?
    « Reply #14 on: April 18, 2018, 10:53:12 PM »
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  • Yes. As long as it is your relative or someone you love you can do whatever you want in this circuмstance--God's honor be ignored. People come first always--then our Redeemer. Long live sentimental theology. Witnessing sacrilege in silence is always permissible--according to the above liberal. Relativism....bah!
    Wow such angry filth.  Did I say anyone could do what they want? No.  Did I say God's honor to be ignored? No.  "Witnessing sacrilege in silence,"  What are you going to do? Protest your own father's funeral.  The sacrilege and heresies of the NO exist regardless of the dainty pedestal you sit upon.  Ok, so he was not one of the 100k Traditional Catholics in the world.  Try thinking practically and not like a zealot.  Like I said before:
    Would you want your son's family not to attend your funeral because they belong to the Boston cult, or are a strict SSPX aficionado?  If the SSPX goes full potato in the Novus Ordo then and they don't leave, are you going to disown them?