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Are there any well known Saints who were born out of wedlock?
« on: September 21, 2018, 08:20:03 AM »
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  • Here in my country, and God knows how many other countries, children born out of wedlock in the past have been treated abonimably by priests and nuns and relatives as though these little persons had committed an unforgivable sin themselves.

    The reason I ask this is because of circuмstances I have a grandchild who happened to be born out of wedlock. Oh yes, it happens in Catholic families as well.

    That child is the most beautiful person, has a beautiful soul and personality, is taken to Mass every Sunday, says her prayers and as far as I am concerned is a gift from God which may sound odd, if you know what I mean.

    I ask the question; has there ever been a well known saint who arrived into this world in similar circuмstances. Had there been maybe the history of horrible treatment dished out to such souls migh have been different. The very idea that in the past, my grandchild could be treated as something rotten by Catholics in this world horrifies me.


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    Re: Are there any well known Saints who were born out of wedlock?
    « Reply #1 on: September 21, 2018, 10:27:24 AM »
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  • There is one saint I know of - St. Mungo of Scotland - also known s St. Kentigern. Though he isn't well known outside of the British Isles. What's interesting is that his mother, St. Enoch, is also a saint. 


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    Re: Are there any well known Saints who were born out of wedlock?
    « Reply #2 on: September 21, 2018, 05:40:48 PM »
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  • Here in my country, and God knows how many other countries, children born out of wedlock in the past have been treated abonimably by priests and nuns and relatives as though these little persons had committed an unforgivable sin themselves.

    The very idea that in the past, my grandchild could be treated as something rotten by Catholics in this world horrifies me.
    This still may be the case in some trad circles today. At least it seems that way with how some trad Catholics that we know, and how they act/speak... Severely lacking all charity for those still catching up. 

    I know from experience. Our son was born out of wedlock and his father and I didn’t marry until some years after he was born. 
    We then came to Tradition from the Novus Ordo after that, and so most people would not know our history on it. But I’ll bet if they did find out, they all would’nt be as hopeful for our son’s future Sainthood..well with these less than ideal circuмstances he was born into. 

    Thankfully though, and by God’s Grace our son is now a grown adult with a strong prayer life and he is very devout. I pray every day he does become a Saint, and I ask him to pray for his parents’ souls as well. 

    Perhaps if there are Saints who were born out of wedlock, these children now that live in these very corrupt days may have someone that they can read up on and have hope in living the life of a Saint and not just dying as one. 

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    Re: Are there any well known Saints who were born out of wedlock?
    « Reply #3 on: September 21, 2018, 07:03:23 PM »
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  • If the parents later marry properly, is not the out-of-wedlock-born child then legitimatized? 

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  • St Martin de Porres, Helper in Hopeless Cases
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    Born in 1579 at Lima, Peru, the illegitimate son of a Spanish  knight, at 12 his mother apprenticed him to a barber-surgeon, who taught him the healing arts. Martin had a deep devotion to Our Lord’s Passion, and continually prayed to know what he could do in gratitude for the immense blessings of redemption. At 15, Martin received the habit of the Third Order of St Dominic and became a servant at the Dominican Rosary Convent at Lima. He was professed as a lay brother, which Martin felt was too great an honor for him.
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    He served in several offices in the convent - barber, infirmarian, wardrobe keeper, gardener and counsellor. He worked at hard and menial tasks without ever losing a moment of union with God. His charity, humility, and obedience were extraordinary. Soon Martin's reputation as a healer spread abroad. He nursed the sick, including plague victims, and helped found an orphanage and foundling hospital. He distributed the convent's alms of food (which he is said to have increased miraculously). Martin ministered to the slaves that had been brought from Africa.
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    He cured as much through prayer as through his knowledge of the medical arts. Among the countless cures attributed to Martin were a priest dying from a badly infected leg and a young student whose damaged fingers were causing him to be refused ordination.
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    Martin spent his nights in prayer and penance, and he experienced visions and ecstasies. He was endowed with the gift of bilocation; he was seen in Mexico, Central America, and Japan, by people who knew him well, whereas he had never otherwise travelled outside Lima. He passed through locked doors, in this way appearing at the bedside of the sick without being asked and always soothed the sick even when he did not heal them.
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    Even sick animals came to Martin for healing. He demonstrated a great control of and care for animals extending his love even to rodents, whose scavenging he excused on the grounds that they were hungry. It is said that the prior objected to the rodents, ordering Martin to set out poison for them. Martin obeyed, but was  sorry for the rats. He went into the garden and called softly. He reprimanded them, told them about the poison, and assured them he would feed them every day in the garden, if they would refrain from annoying the prior. Forever after, they never troubled the monastery.
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    Martin's friends included St Rose of Lima. He was consulted on delicate matters by persons of consequence in Lima. His community came to respect him so much that they accepted his spiritual direction, even though he was but a lay brother.
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    He died of quatrain fever at Rosary Convent on November 3, 1639. The Spanish viceroy came to kneel at his deathbed and ask his blessing. Martin was carried to his grave by prelates and noblemen. The miracles, which caused Martin to be called a saint in his own lifetime, continue today at his intercession.
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.


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  • Both Saint Augustine and Saint Margaret of Cortona had a son born out of wedlock. St Margaret's illegitimate son went on to become a Franciscan Friar.
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.