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I'm critical of my father and grateful for him in different categories. In ways I'm critical of him, that he hurt me or my siblings, why would I want to replicate that? Does that make any sense to you? If yes, your mind is messed up. I never understood the excuse that abuse is a cycle. Certainly not. In your heart you want the next generation to get a better life than you did. Since my father or mother were abusive I'll abuse my offspring is a boomer mind rot that only exists secluded in the unimportant land of the conciousness of people born from 1944-1974. 

Yes, that includes some of gen x. And people people born in those years can be great.

Hopefully in the near future even verbal spousal and child abuse will become illegal. Real, serious abuse including erraticism, not getting in a spat once a year.

Would it be factual to say that men are more constant and women are more extreme?  I mean that a man can be happy, but a woman can be joyful, exuberant, giddy.  A man could be sad, but a woman is depressed, melancholic, hysterical.  I know I explained it poorly, but maybe you get the gist.

Unfortunately it is bad women who have corrupted men.  I don't want to cause trouble, but, the young men I know (16 - 20) don't care about relationships.  These topics are introduced by poorly formed older men, or girls doing something enticing, or pictures on the internet.

Much of what is written above is a bit vulgar.  I think men exposed to bad women have a poor understanding of what true womanhood is.  I know for me it is quite discouraging that all these conversations end with how horrible women are.

Side note: I was discussing this with my husband and he pointed out that women are addicted to emotional drama.  I agree with him.

I know I rambled yet again, but I accept that sometimes I do that.

I'm sorry everyone, I just translated and copy pasted, should've been more careful, hope nobody got impure thoughts from it.

I agree with the first thing, women are more extreme and sensitive and insatiable in all matters, and that's a good thing. I dislike the woman bashing and doompilling myself, though the Woman Question does loom large today.

Regarding the thread, yeah it went all over the place, IMHO to the original post, I think there are both messed up women and men, in fact I'd wager most people are kinda messed up nowadays. Truth is they end up together and they do relatively alright.

I don't like the broken label, I prefer wounded, I think that yeah a person that has had a drug addiction and is covered with tattoos and then converted to traditional Catholicism is wounded, but I think that means they just probably won't land the 10/10 perfect person, probably another wounded person or someone with not that many options, and that's perfectly fine.

I also think that some people aren't wounded, they're just odd or strange, those people will probably end up with another odd or strange person, that's a fine thing too.

Many do feel that way. And it is difficult because they are left with little choice when it comes to sane spouses.

And because men are silenced whenever they become too 'toxic' for women's sensibilities. Women control the collective narrative and if you say something against it, you will feel their fury.