My teenage daughter participated in some neo-trad social dances, at my naive request
I noticed that dance program can easily change depending upon the agenda of the DJ.
In one trad dance, they children were supposed to be doing traditional ballroom dances (Waltz, Polka, Tango... etc.). However, by the end of the evening, the DJ changed the music.
It became increasingly modern, with some rap thrown in for good measure.
At the end, he played the gay party song, "YMCA".
Under the blare of the music, I approached a neo-trad mother who was supervising the dance and jokingly said, Why is the DJ playing a song which is the homosexual's battle-cry".
She replied, "The song is whatever you want it to mean".
It was another lesson that: "Trads will never agree on anything".