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Offline IndultCat

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Re: Anger Explosion
« Reply #15 on: Yesterday at 07:01:30 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:00:28 PM
    Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.

    I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.

    What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
    Remember that a firm open-handed slap to the face is always an option. 
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #16 on: Yesterday at 07:02:45 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 05:58:29 PM
    Just put up with her thawing meat on the floor?
    Yes, unless you stepped on with dog poop or manure boots. 
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #17 on: Yesterday at 07:06:05 PM »
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    • Quote from: IndultCat on Yesterday at 07:01:30 PM
    Remember that a firm open-handed slap to the face is always an option.
    And you’re prepared for the same in reply. 
    Where do you live?
    Ill make sure I go nowhere near your house.
    I treasure my peace and quiet. 
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #18 on: Yesterday at 07:27:09 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:00:28 PM
    Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.

    I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.

    What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
    Pray to God to grant you more patience for God to grant your wife more humility. :pray:

    Also...  Heated arguments rarely do any good.  If someone is not ready to listen arguing usually makes things worse. May God help you both.  :pray:
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #19 on: Yesterday at 09:58:49 PM »
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    • Jas 1:20:
    Quote from: St. James
    For the anger of man worketh not the justice of God.
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #20 on: Yesterday at 11:20:13 PM »
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    • This website should change its name to uncathinfo. Only a few Catholics on here from looking at the comments.

    Most likely full of feds and jidf posting under multiple accounts. 
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #21 on: Today at 03:10:45 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:00:28 PM

    What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
    It's really in the definition. Passive aggression is expressing the negative emotion without direct conflict. The solution is to get the person to talk and explain their feelings without fear of an argument or worse.

    Ask questions, listen, let them speak without interruption, take time to consider everything they said. Save your rebuttals for another day.
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #22 on: Today at 03:43:29 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:00:28 PM
    Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.

    I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.

    What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
    You can accept it as your cross, thank Jesus for it, and happily carry it for love of Him, because he carried His for love of you.

    Who can ever complain that he suffers wrongfully when he considers Jesus brutally tortured for our sins?

    He suffered great injustices, tortures, inconveniences, and mockeries with peace and meekness.

    Jesus has revealed that there’s no more efficient way to arrive at perfect love for Him than to meditate constantly on His Passion, so think of His suffering the burden of your sins as you suffer the burden of this cross.

    When she is a bother, be happy, because now you have something to suffer for Christ, and an opportunity to repair for the times when you lost your patience. And if you think it prudent, watch an episode of Bob Ross painting each day and try to emulate his care free, calm, peaceful personality.
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #23 on: Today at 04:55:09 PM »
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    • Quote from: AMDGJMJ on Yesterday at 07:27:09 PM
    Pray to God to grant you more patience for God to grant your wife more humility. :pray:
    :facepalm:

    Prayer without action - a way to do nothing but still think you're doing something. 
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #24 on: Today at 04:55:30 PM »
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    • If you don't have kids, then get away from her as soon and far away as possible. She is very toxic.

    If you do have kids: you married her, so you have to live with her for the kids' sake. You should've learned to choose a better woman for a wife. I know, a good woman is extremely rare in the world but you should've known that before getting married.

    If her toxicity is a detriment to the kids, then acquire a good attorney and get full custody of the kids and permanently separate you and your kids from her.


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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #25 on: Today at 05:00:12 PM »
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    • A man is raising his voice or shouting at a woman? That is a lack of self-control. Women are the weaker vessel per the scriptures. You are supposed to be the more reasonable, patient vessel. Go back and start over again. Police and security guards are taught conflict resolution - stay calm during verbal altercations and do not raise your voice. A wife has seen her husband yell, scream and get angry. That makes you look easily manipulated. Stay calm and be mature about this. 
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    « Reply #26 on: Today at 05:29:08 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 05:00:12 PM
    A man is raising his voice or shouting at a woman? That is a lack of self-control. Women are the weaker vessel per the scriptures. You are supposed to be the more reasonable, patient vessel. Go back and start over again. Police and security guards are taught conflict resolution - stay calm during verbal altercations and do not raise your voice. A wife has seen her husband yell, scream and get angry. That makes you look easily manipulated. Stay calm and be mature about this.
    If women want to be treated like the weaker vessel, they better act like it. Police are whipped and automatically take the women's side in a 'conflict'. 
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    « Reply #27 on: Today at 05:38:48 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 11:20:13 PM
    This website should change its name to uncathinfo. Only a few Catholics on here from looking at the comments.

    Most likely full of feds and jidf posting under multiple accounts.
    "uncathinfo" meh. I preferred "washwomaninfo" from an anon several years ago. :laugh1:
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #28 on: Today at 05:41:14 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 05:29:08 PM
    If women want to be treated like the weaker vessel, they better act like it. Police are whipped and automatically take the women's side in a 'conflict'.
    1 Timothy 2 -
    13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.

    By deciding on the married vocation, one must be prepared to patiently undergo these trials.
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    Re: Anger Explosion
    « Reply #29 on: Today at 05:45:06 PM »
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    • Quote from: C6H12O6 on Today at 04:55:09 PM
    :facepalm:

    Prayer without action - a way to do nothing but still think you're doing something.
    Prayer from others does do something.  St Therese of Liseaux prayed a felon into conversion before he served his death sentence.
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    1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 "4 Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely; is not puffed up; 5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil;"
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