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Traditional Catholic Faith => Anσnymσus Posts Allowed => Topic started by: Änσnymσus on July 02, 2025, 04:00:28 PM
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
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While I do genuinely have sympathy for your problems, I REALLY, REALLY HATE IT when screwed up people try to pull everyone around them into their dysfunctional shit-show. As I asked in a different thread, "is it helping?"
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While I do genuinely have sympathy for your problems, I REALLY, REALLY HATE IT when screwed up people try to pull everyone around them into their dysfunctional shit-show. As I asked in a different thread, "is it helping?"
This is a forum on the internet. What the heck you talking about? Someone has family issues. Get over yourself.
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
So you let her control your emotions? You sound whipped.
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Have you ever thought she's doing it BECAUSE she gets a reaction from your???
She's exibiting very childish behaviour.
Maybe it's time to tell her in a VERY CALM voice to behave herself or you may have to take action and have her committed for a mental evaluation.
Never react emotionally. Stay calm....keep her guessing...this should let her know you mean business and that this behaviour is to end or there will be consequences.
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Have you ever thought she's doing it BECAUSE she gets a reaction from your???
She's exibiting very childish behaviour.
Maybe it's time to tell her in a VERY CALM voice to behave herself or you may have to take action and have her committed for a mental evaluation.
Never react emotionally. Stay calm....keep her guessing...this should let her know you mean business and that this behaviour is to end or there will be consequences.
Yes and that it won't be you who will be leaving the house but her and her alone.
You could also have her evaluated by her doctor if this behavior came on suddenly but if not then God help you.
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So you let her control your emotions? You sound whipped.
you're obviously not married.
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Have you ever thought she's doing it BECAUSE she gets a reaction from your???
She's exibiting very childish behaviour.
Maybe it's time to tell her in a VERY CALM voice to behave herself or you may have to take action and have her committed for a mental evaluation.
Never react emotionally. Stay calm....keep her guessing...this should let her know you mean business and that this behaviour is to end or there will be consequences.
She refuses mental evaluation. She is an adult woman in 2025. This isn't the 1950s. She doesn't have to do anything.
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What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
Don't play into it. Ignore her.
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Tell her to sleep on the couch. She sounds ungrateful. It's no wonder men are less willing to get married these days.
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Maybe you deserve each other. God put you together on purpose to sink or start swimming. Your choice!
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
Just put up with her thawing meat on the floor?
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I just wonder how many of these posts are all made by the OP. Right answer is that we are in absolutely no position to even comment on the matter, since we don't know what transpired, what OP means by passive-aggression, whether OP started it or the wife did, or whether OP usually starts it or the wife does etc. etc. Zero information should lead to zero comments ... except if it's OP himself trolling. That would be very much like Croix, where he likes to back himself up on threads.
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You can open anonymous threads to make you feel better, but it is not guaranteed that it will work.
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I am just going to pray for you and your wife. I don't think there is anything more we can do.
If you are the same poster as the defrosting meat on the the floor thread. Were you able to speak to a priest? Did he give you advice? Try to follow it.
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
Remember that a firm open-handed slap to the face is always an option.
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Just put up with her thawing meat on the floor?
Yes, unless you stepped on with dog poop or manure boots.
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Remember that a firm open-handed slap to the face is always an option.
And you’re prepared for the same in reply.
Where do you live?
Ill make sure I go nowhere near your house.
I treasure my peace and quiet.
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
Pray to God to grant you more patience for God to grant your wife more humility. :pray:
Also... Heated arguments rarely do any good. If someone is not ready to listen arguing usually makes things worse. May God help you both. :pray:
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Jas 1:20 (https://drbo.org/cgi-bin/d?b=drl&bk=66&ch=1&l=20#x):
For the anger of man worketh not the justice of God.
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This website should change its name to uncathinfo. Only a few Catholics on here from looking at the comments.
Most likely full of feds and jidf posting under multiple accounts.
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What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
It's really in the definition. Passive aggression is expressing the negative emotion without direct conflict. The solution is to get the person to talk and explain their feelings without fear of an argument or worse.
Ask questions, listen, let them speak without interruption, take time to consider everything they said. Save your rebuttals for another day.
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Wife pushed me to the limit. I can only take so much bullshit till a valve blows.
I'm fuming. I call out her behavior. We had another big heated argument. She makes her usual threats and insults.
What can you do about a wife's passive aggression?
You can accept it as your cross, thank Jesus for it, and happily carry it for love of Him, because he carried His for love of you.
Who can ever complain that he suffers wrongfully when he considers Jesus brutally tortured for our sins?
He suffered great injustices, tortures, inconveniences, and mockeries with peace and meekness.
Jesus has revealed that there’s no more efficient way to arrive at perfect love for Him than to meditate constantly on His Passion, so think of His suffering the burden of your sins as you suffer the burden of this cross.
When she is a bother, be happy, because now you have something to suffer for Christ, and an opportunity to repair for the times when you lost your patience. And if you think it prudent, watch an episode of Bob Ross painting each day and try to emulate his care free, calm, peaceful personality.
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Pray to God to grant you more patience for God to grant your wife more humility. :pray:
:facepalm:
Prayer without action - a way to do nothing but still think you're doing something.
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If you don't have kids, then get away from her as soon and far away as possible. She is very toxic.
If you do have kids: you married her, so you have to live with her for the kids' sake. You should've learned to choose a better woman for a wife. I know, a good woman is extremely rare in the world but you should've known that before getting married.
If her toxicity is a detriment to the kids, then acquire a good attorney and get full custody of the kids and permanently separate you and your kids from her.
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A man is raising his voice or shouting at a woman? That is a lack of self-control. Women are the weaker vessel per the scriptures. You are supposed to be the more reasonable, patient vessel. Go back and start over again. Police and security guards are taught conflict resolution - stay calm during verbal altercations and do not raise your voice. A wife has seen her husband yell, scream and get angry. That makes you look easily manipulated. Stay calm and be mature about this.
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A man is raising his voice or shouting at a woman? That is a lack of self-control. Women are the weaker vessel per the scriptures. You are supposed to be the more reasonable, patient vessel. Go back and start over again. Police and security guards are taught conflict resolution - stay calm during verbal altercations and do not raise your voice. A wife has seen her husband yell, scream and get angry. That makes you look easily manipulated. Stay calm and be mature about this.
If women want to be treated like the weaker vessel, they better act like it. Police are whipped and automatically take the women's side in a 'conflict'.
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This website should change its name to uncathinfo. Only a few Catholics on here from looking at the comments.
Most likely full of feds and jidf posting under multiple accounts.
"uncathinfo" meh. I preferred "washwomaninfo" from an anon several years ago. :laugh1:
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If women want to be treated like the weaker vessel, they better act like it. Police are whipped and automatically take the women's side in a 'conflict'.
1 Timothy 2 -
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.
By deciding on the married vocation, one must be prepared to patiently undergo these trials.
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:facepalm:
Prayer without action - a way to do nothing but still think you're doing something.
Prayer from others does do something. St Therese of Liseaux prayed a felon into conversion before he served his death sentence.
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A man is raising his voice or shouting at a woman? That is a lack of self-control.
Not necessarily. Christ yelled at St Peter to -- get behind me, satan. Sometimes raising one's voice is a way to snap the other person out of their emotional turmoil. Or to assert authority.
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My uncle always told me that whoever gets angry first in an argument, loses. It was valuable advice. This is also why I would advise against slapping your wife, because it will look like you're just doing it out of anger. It's too easy to go overboard with something like that, if done out of anger. Better to stay calm and not resort to violence.
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Is it possible that a demon is about. Does she look at you with disgust, if you hold a rosary. Holy water, does she scream. How does she act with words, "Jesus and Mary and Precious Blood. When was the last time you both had confession/sacraments?
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Prayer from for others does do something. St Therese of Liseaux prayed a felon into conversion before he served his death sentence.
She, also, took action by writing him letters, witnessing about Jesus Christ to him. Anyway, the ratio between prayer alone and both prayer & action for God to answer prayers is like 1 to 1000 (of course this ratio is not quantifiable but it's an accurate way of explaining the huge difference between prayer alone and prayer & action. There are numerous texts in the Bible revealing the necessity of prayer & action (or works).
You lose. Truth wins.
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She, also, took action by writing him letters, witnessing about Jesus Christ to him.
That's interesting; I didn't know that.
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She, also, took action by writing him letters, witnessing about Jesus Christ to him. Anyway, the ratio between prayer alone and both prayer & action for God to answer prayers is like 1 to 1000 (of course this ratio is not quantifiable but it's an accurate way of explaining the huge difference between prayer alone and prayer & action. There are numerous texts in the Bible revealing the necessity of prayer & action (or works).
You lose. Truth wins.
Then what action do you expect from random people on the internet, who do not know anything about these people except an anonymous post?
I didn't lose anything. And of course Truth always wins.
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She, also, took action by writing him letters, witnessing about Jesus Christ to him. Anyway, the ratio between prayer alone and both prayer & action for God to answer prayers is like 1 to 1000 (of course this ratio is not quantifiable but it's an accurate way of explaining the huge difference between prayer alone and prayer & action. There are numerous texts in the Bible revealing the necessity of prayer & action (or works).
You lose. Truth wins.
In the "The Story of a Soul" it mentions prayer and offering little sacrifices. It never mentioned actually writing to the prisoner. Please provide a source for your information.