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Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
« on: September 20, 2017, 07:46:30 AM »
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    • What sort of advise would you give to a person who has been sɛҳuąƖly assaulted  by a priest? 

    Any help you can offer is appreciated. 
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #1 on: September 20, 2017, 05:09:38 PM »
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    • IF it was not a traditional priest, then go to a traditional priest.  I knew of one.  Victims went to him, traditional.  He kept a little black book, as he told me, of names of the assaulters.  He did give advise.  Say 3 rosaries a day.  Receive the sacraments ( true sacraments which have the powers of the Precious Blood) often.
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #2 on: September 20, 2017, 05:19:09 PM »
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    • Quote from: Anonymous on September 20, 2017, 05:18:09 PM
    i.e. "Immediately immerse yourself in traumatic associations."

    From what I know of these things, even if it has been "a long time", it's not something that "just goes away."

    Even if this person thinks that they are comfortable with speaking with another priest(?), feelings and trauma should be prepped for in advance. The echoes have a way of ambushing someone, and that is trauma in general.

    Example: it's a bit of a wake up when you find yourself front sighting kids lighting fireworks.

    Not fun, and not expected.

    What if that priest(?) is a predator as well?

    With sympathies:
    1. Prayer
    2. Seek other faithful who've "been there".
    "Signed" DZ PLEASE

    Thanks for finding a legitimate use for the "anon" section.
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #3 on: September 20, 2017, 08:19:46 PM »
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    • Quote from: Anonymous on September 20, 2017, 05:09:38 PM
    IF it was not a traditional priest, then go to a traditional priest.  I knew of one.  Victims went to him, traditional.  He kept a little black book, as he told me, of names of the assaulters.  He did give advise.  Say 3 rosaries a day.  Receive the sacraments ( true sacraments which have the powers of the Precious Blood) often.

    how can someone contact this priest?
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #4 on: September 20, 2017, 08:40:39 PM »
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    • Do not even trust bishops, who can be enablers.

    I know because I am also a victim. The bishop did not believe me either.

    Above all, doo not trust Bishop Tom. Last name not mentioned on purpose because he will sue.
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #5 on: September 21, 2017, 04:20:19 AM »
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    • Who is the priest who can help?
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #6 on: September 25, 2017, 12:07:06 AM »
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    • How does someonevcontact the good priest who can help?
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #7 on: September 25, 2017, 12:13:37 AM »
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    • Quote from: Anonymous on September 20, 2017, 05:09:38 PM


    IF it was not a traditional priest, then go to a traditional priest.  I knew of one.  Victims went to him, traditional.  He kept a little black book, as he told me, of names of the assaulters.  He did give advise.  Say 3 rosaries a day.  Receive the sacraments ( true sacraments which have the powers of the Precious Blood) often.

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    How does someonevcontact the good priest who can help?
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    Quote from: Anonymous on September 25, 2017, 12:07:06 AM

    How does someonevcontact the good priest who can help?

    I would presume by the way that post was written that the person no longer has contact with this priest or may even be dead, considering in the post it is said "I knew a priest who..." meaning that was in the past. Hopefully the poster can clarify.
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #8 on: September 25, 2017, 12:14:19 AM »
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    • Where do you live?
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    Re: Advice for those who have been abused by clergy?
    « Reply #9 on: September 26, 2017, 07:35:23 PM »
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    • I knew of this priest:  Yes, it is true that he died.  But if you can give your area, we, of this forum, may be able to refer you to who we fell can be trusted.  I we will keep you in prayer.
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