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« on: July 29, 2013, 10:27:38 PM »
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  • Barely two years after it was slammed by “An Autobiography of a Nun” that catalogued thelurid details of bullying, sɛҳuąƖ abuse and ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity,”the Catholic Church in Kerala is set for another attack by a former nun.

    Sixty-eight-year-old Sister Mary, who left her Catholic congregation in Kerala 13 years ago in disgust after 40 years of nunhood, is ready with her exposé. In a biographical sketch titledNanma Niranjavare Swasthi, to be released next week, she heaps more ignominy on the Church.

    Sister Mary talks in vivid detail about the extreme pain she had to endure during her tenure with the congregation: physical and psychological oppression, the sɛҳuąƖ permissiveness and abuse prevalent among some of the nuns and priests,  and the harassment she faced for sticking to her values and commitment to service.

    She also talks about the miserable sense of abandonment, rathen than sacrifice or service, that some of the nuns feel.

    For the Catholic church in Kerala which is already under attack with a wide range of allegations ranging from oppression of its nuns, abuse, ѕυιcιdєs and inappropriate sɛҳuąƖ behaviour, the new book will certainly be further bad publicity.

    Two biographical accounts; one by Jesme Raphael who gave up the nun’s robes after 26 years of service (2009) and another by a male priest, KP Shibu Kalaparambil who left after 24 years in white (2010); had in the recent past, dented the reputation and order of the Catholic Church. Both of them had explosive revelations including sɛҳuąƖ exploitation of women and men.

    In her memoirs Sister Mary, born in the Palai area of eastern Kerala, describes how she wanted to be a nun at the age of 13 and ran away from home to a Catholic congregation. Although she “found her path of service at the altar of the god”, what awaited her was four decades of hardship, betrayal and absolute disappointment.

    Unable to take it anymore, she abandoned her robes in 1999 but continued her service to humanity by establishing a modest orphanage at Wayanad in north Kerala. According to Jose Pazhukaran, the writer who helped Mary put together the memoir, she literally begs door-to-door  to raise the resources for her orphanage. “She is now doing what she couldn’t accomplish as a nun – to serve humanity and be a mother to abandoned children,” says Pazhukaran.

    “There was a lot of unbearable pain and humiliation. Some ran away, some committed ѕυιcιdє. I endured all the pain because of the priest’s words at my first communion as a nun – you should be ready to follow the path of Jesus Christ. These words are still throbbing in my heart and that is why I am a mother of orphans,” says Sister Mary.


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    « Reply #1 on: July 29, 2013, 10:28:58 PM »
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  • "I really got wild as I used to do when I was a child on such situations. I got hold of a wooden stool in front of me and hit him hard.

    It fell on his head and he started bleeding profusely. I got both sad and scared although I did it in self-defence – he was a priest. I screamed in fear and rushed out of the room and told everyone what happened. But most of them appeared indifferent and started scolding me.

    “What did you do, are you out to shame the congregation?”

    When they went into the room , the priest was on his chair, speechless and drenched in blood. He was taken to the Kozhikode medical college hospital where it was reported that he fell in the bathroom.

    I was the target of tremendous ire after that incident. When everybody walked away from me as if I was a proclaimed offender I prayed hard. But when I realised that it was the way things worked, I really got scared that I was trapped in serious danger. Since then, I was marked; a thorn in the flesh for the congregation.

    Opposing wrongdoings was my character and that was the reason for all the conflicts that I faced in life as a nun. I wasn’t ready to blindly accept the priests and the church without looking at their deeds.

    Sensing the situation I was in, Father Peter called for me one day. I told him every thing. I cried a lot in front of him. He consoled me and advised me to handle the Church and people with restraint.

    But, the other nuns by then had branded me as a rogue. Nobody pointed out what was the ground for my disobedience. Since then, I was a nuisance for them. Sister Betty was the only consolation.

    Since I was termed disobedient right from my stay at the novitiate, my nunhood had to wait for six months. The priests believe that they had the complete control of the nuns. They believe that they are the ultimate owners of the Church, its properties and the believers.

    When people get sɛҳuąƖly exploited, their belief gets affected; that is what is happening now. Some people commit ѕυιcιdє when they are unable to cope with this reality.

    The priest who was hit by me is a good friend now and calls me often to enquire about my well being. He also tells me that my response has reformed him."


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    Barely two years after it was slammed by “An Autobiography of a Nun” that catalogued thelurid details of bullying, sɛҳuąƖ abuse and ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity,”the Catholic Church in Kerala is set for another attack by a former nun.

    Sixty-eight-year-old Sister Mary, who left her Catholic congregation in Kerala 13 years ago in disgust after 40 years of nunhood, is ready with her exposé. In a biographical sketch titledNanma Niranjavare Swasthi, to be released next week, she heaps more ignominy on the Church.

    Sister Mary talks in vivid detail about the extreme pain she had to endure during her tenure with the congregation: physical and psychological oppression, the sɛҳuąƖ permissiveness and abuse prevalent among some of the nuns and priests,  and the harassment she faced for sticking to her values and commitment to service.

    She also talks about the miserable sense of abandonment, rathen than sacrifice or service, that some of the nuns feel.

    For the Catholic church in Kerala which is already under attack with a wide range of allegations ranging from oppression of its nuns, abuse, ѕυιcιdєs and inappropriate sɛҳuąƖ behaviour, the new book will certainly be further bad publicity.

    Two biographical accounts; one by Jesme Raphael who gave up the nun’s robes after 26 years of service (2009) and another by a male priest, KP Shibu Kalaparambil who left after 24 years in white (2010); had in the recent past, dented the reputation and order of the Catholic Church. Both of them had explosive revelations including sɛҳuąƖ exploitation of women and men.

    In her memoirs Sister Mary, born in the Palai area of eastern Kerala, describes how she wanted to be a nun at the age of 13 and ran away from home to a Catholic congregation. Although she “found her path of service at the altar of the god”, what awaited her was four decades of hardship, betrayal and absolute disappointment.

    Unable to take it anymore, she abandoned her robes in 1999 but continued her service to humanity by establishing a modest orphanage at Wayanad in north Kerala. According to Jose Pazhukaran, the writer who helped Mary put together the memoir, she literally begs door-to-door  to raise the resources for her orphanage. “She is now doing what she couldn’t accomplish as a nun – to serve humanity and be a mother to abandoned children,” says Pazhukaran.

    “There was a lot of unbearable pain and humiliation. Some ran away, some committed ѕυιcιdє. I endured all the pain because of the priest’s words at my first communion as a nun – you should be ready to follow the path of Jesus Christ. These words are still throbbing in my heart and that is why I am a mother of orphans,” says Sister Mary.

    The path of Jesus Christ is the Cross