Never meddle in somebody else's marriage. Some of those yes dear husbands may be perfectly happy with their arrangement.
Amen to that. See my above comments.
But I would like to find some way, to educate "yes, dear" husbands that their obsequiousness is not worthy of a Catholic man.
Sometimes I suspect that, at one point back in the past, the wife has caught the husband up in something, and as a result, he has become basically her b**** for life.