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Offline DeathWears A BlueBeret

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Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
« Reply #45 on: May 27, 2021, 07:04:06 PM »
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  • Women want to get married but they don't want to be wives. 


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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #46 on: May 27, 2021, 07:05:34 PM »
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  • husbands should listen to their wives too. they have opinions, and the husband's opinion is not absolute simply because he's a man. be humble. compromise.
    Crypto-feminist alert ^


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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #47 on: May 27, 2021, 07:20:01 PM »
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    Women want to get married but they don't want to be wives. 
    And definitely not mothers.

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #48 on: May 27, 2021, 07:24:06 PM »
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  • We are helpers to our husbands. 

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #49 on: May 27, 2021, 07:28:41 PM »
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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #50 on: May 31, 2021, 04:11:19 PM »
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  • Croix: hates Jєωs and hates women. I hope your next neighbors are a Jєωιѕн family with 5 daughters:jester:

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #51 on: May 31, 2021, 04:18:22 PM »
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  • Croix: hates Jєωs and hates women. I hope your next neighbors are a Jєωιѕн family with 5 daughters:jester:
    God hates Jєωs so Croix is in good company. And most feminist women in modern America are no better than the Jєωs

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #52 on: May 31, 2021, 06:42:24 PM »
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  • Never meddle in somebody else's marriage. Some of those yes dear husbands may be perfectly happy with their arrangement. 


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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #53 on: May 31, 2021, 09:10:03 PM »
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  • Never meddle in somebody else's marriage.
    Some of those yes dear husbands may be perfectly happy with their arrangement.
    Amen to that.  See my above comments.

    But I would like to find some way, to educate "yes, dear" husbands that their obsequiousness is not worthy of a Catholic man.

    Sometimes I suspect that, at one point back in the past, the wife has caught the husband up in something, and as a result, he has become basically her b**** for life.

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #54 on: May 31, 2021, 09:55:24 PM »
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  • I know of one yes dear husband. He was not chaste before the marriage and gave his wife herpes. I think he let himself be ruled in part because he ruined her life. They divorced eventually and he found that he couldn't stand on his own. He needs a dominant woman and he got married again after a year. I don't know what went wrong with him but while we all chuckled at him or felt sorry for him; he was in an arrangement that met his needs.

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #55 on: May 31, 2021, 11:27:58 PM »
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  • I know of one yes dear husband. He was not chaste before the marriage and gave his wife herpes. I think he let himself be ruled in part because he ruined her life. They divorced eventually and he found that he couldn't stand on his own. He needs a dominant woman and he got married again after a year. I don't know what went wrong with him but while we all chuckled at him or felt sorry for him; he was in an arrangement that met his needs.
    No man should ever "need" any woman.  Full stop.


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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #56 on: June 03, 2021, 04:25:23 PM »
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  • No man should ever "need" any woman.  Full stop.
    Right. Codependency isn't good.
    1 Cor 11:9: "the man was not created for the woman: but the woman for the man."
    The man comes first and is self-subsistant like God. The woman comes from and depends upon the man.
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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #57 on: June 04, 2021, 09:03:09 PM »
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  • Stupidest post of the week.  :facepalm:
    So a reformed drunkard has no useful advice on the sinfulness of excessive drinking? 👌
    There are no reformed drunkards.  Once an alcoholic always an alcoholic.
    If sin and repentance were better than chastity and sober living, Our Lady and Our Lord would have sinned to learn their lessons and be better examples to us.  They did not. 
    There is no teaching to stray off the narrow path so you better know what it looks like when you return.  The prodigal son was not superior to the brother who stayed at home and worked the land. 
    My heroes and those I seek to imitate are the little quiet people who live good lives and don't screw up. 

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    Re: "Yes, dear" husbands
    « Reply #58 on: June 05, 2021, 02:37:54 AM »
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  • There are no reformed drunkards.  Once an alcoholic always an alcoholic.
    That is not true.

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    If sin and repentance were better than chastity and sober living, Our Lady and Our Lord would have sinned to learn their lessons and be better examples to us.  They did not.
    There is no teaching to stray off the narrow path so you better know what it looks like when you return.  The prodigal son was not superior to the brother who stayed at home and worked the land.
    Who claimed that sin and repentance would be better than chastity and sober living? This is a straw man argument, of course it's better to remain chaste and not go astray.

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    My heroes and those I seek to imitate are the little quiet people who live good lives and don't screw up.
    Exactly!