Stupidest post of the week.
So a reformed drunkard has no useful advice on the sinfulness of excessive drinking? 👌
I wouldn't go so far as to call it "stupid", but
both of your points are well taken.
Having been married and divorced, I could tell any man who cares to listen, some things you might do --- and that I
didn't do --- to secure the integrity of one's marriage, home, and family. Had to learn the hard way.
One thing --- and this isn't necessarily a reference to adultery --- is
do not ever let third parties into your home (physically or psychologically) to the extent that they end up running your lives. There's a certain stripe of person who will do that if you let them --- they
live for such an opportunity. Once a man loses sovereignty of his own home, it's pretty much game over. Mistake made that wouldn't be repeated, if there ever were a second time. All I'm going to say about that.