Men can have latent misogyny. Women can have latent feminism. We all need grace and wisdom to root out our imperfections.
I find it interesting (not the good kind) that the clause left off of the quotation for "wives (to) obey (their) husbands)" is the latter part...which states, "as unto the Lord".
It is not blind obedience and allegiance to Divine Law and to God always comes first.